does age make a man more suceptible to cheating? my 25 yo husband and i werent having any sex for 2 months so when some ***** who had been chasing him (knowing hes married too) got a hold of him when he was drunk at a party he said he had no willpower. that he totally did not even think on me and the kids and only on sex. he then did it with her 3 more times since she was always calling and calling, i wouldnt give him any and he "needed" sex. plus the fact that i was so blissfully unaware and never even checked up on him or questioned him made it too easy for him. he said the 4th time made him sick with guilt tho as he realized what he was doing, with whom (his bf wife who is 40, fat ugly and missing a tooth) and what he was gonna lose. so he came home. broke off all contacts with her and confessed. he said it was nothing but sex hes immature and stupid he doesnt know what he was doing with someone so ugly and old when he had the most beautiful 26 year old at home.
2007-03-10 04:39:41 · 3 answers · asked by maylene1852 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
therapy has basically confirmed all this nightmare was a result of our not having sex in so long..... that some of it was my fault cause i basically let him go and do anything he wanted with out ever checking up on him and because i didnt fulfull his needs even though he constantly asked me too i was sending him straight into the arms of another woman. you see for me sex aint a big deal i can live without it but i guess he cannot. believe me i wont make that mistake again. he is getting it 6 times a week now! and he swears he will never look for it elsewhere again. but i told him ever cheats again its no fault of mines and he is gone!
so be careful women and make sure your man is satisfied at home so this doesnt happen to you....
2007-03-10 04:43:27 · update #1
Whatever you are making excuses for your husband, and blaming things on yourself. Yes sex is a very important part of a relationship women men who cares we all need it but really to think if he loved you don't you think he would have just come out and said or maybe started something with you. Then three more
times no excuses your husband just liked having sex with someone other then you and probably the risk of doing such wich unfortunately means he is not so devoted to you. Furthermore know that "Therapy" and "You" have convinced him it is ok to do it again because he is not to blame look out girl the only thing you have coming is a STD.
2007-03-12 23:50:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have the right attitude. Adultery is wrong. No doubt about it. Most women won't acknowledge their shortcomings when their husband cheats.
The reality is that when a husband cheat both parties are responsible for that behavior. My wife satifies me, and even though I see other women I want to have sex with, I don't have the urge or desire to pursue or seduce another woman. It's a very practical solution.
Some women are severely mistaken when they think a man won't cheat just because he's married and he's not supposed to. Wedding vows do not keep a man from cheating. Wives keep their men from cheating.
I commend you for your courage to go forward with your marriage. You are doing the right thing. You will see in the big scheme of things this will end up helping your marriage.
2007-03-10 04:56:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you both get 3 lashes in the eye with a wet noodle
2007-03-10 05:21:36 · answer #3 · answered by lawson403 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋