its been going on for 2 1/2 years
2007-03-10 04:34:12 · 18 answers · asked by paultoledo34 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I believe if a person loves you they don't cheat!
2007-03-10 04:54:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm sorry to say that most likely the answer is no. You know the saying, "once a cheater always a cheater". Well for some people i don't believe that sayings is true. Some people can change. For someone who has never been faithful to you since you met, my opinion is no. There are times when it is truly an accident and "things just happen". But then there are the times that the cheating is constant and nonstop. You don't deserve to be cheated on. You should be with someone who respects you enough to be faithful to you.
2007-03-10 12:43:42 · answer #2 · answered by Brandy P 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think everyone else is off the mark here. After 2 1/2 years, I'm sure your wife feels that you're complicit in her actions since the two of you are still married. Kind of like an alcoholics spouse enabling them to continue drinking while complaining about it at the same time. Are you sure you don't get aroused when you know that your wife is cheating? How do you treat her when she comes home? If you always give her a big kiss, she might feel that you're condoning her behavior.
2007-03-10 16:39:09 · answer #3 · answered by Candice B 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You certainly are longsuffering and hopeful. Just because a person cheated in the past doesn't mean that they will continue to do so in the future....However, it seems like cheating is your wife's typical behavior. If she has been doing it since you two met, why would you marry her?? At any rate, it seems like she has no desire to be faithful to you, so you should move on. She's not worth it.
Good luck
2007-03-10 12:55:14 · answer #4 · answered by answergirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to tell you she will keep walking all over you because your allowingit if it was me I would get divorced because it is apparent that she is not ready to be faithful with one guy for life she is still messing around and she may never change her ways. I'm hoping you are already looking at lawyer council because if you aren't she may be already because it appears she doesn't give a sh it about you or your feelings/. You can file for adultery and irreconcialable differences you may get away not paying much to her because she has voided the vows of the marriage by cheating on you. Good Luck and God Bless sorry to hear about your predicament sometimes we end up in a sour relationship find new love and get on with your life.
2007-03-10 12:45:14 · answer #5 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry about the situation but am really surprised that given the situation you are still asking this question. Why do you want someone who do not believe in the institution of marriage to continue as your wife. Her continous habit of being unfaithfull simply proves that either she is not matured enough to understand meaning of marriage or she does not care. In either case you should simply get rid of the person so that you start looking for a better person in your life and she can sleep unrestricted with as many people she wants to.
2007-03-10 12:58:09 · answer #6 · answered by fun guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im gonna say no. i strongly want to believe a cheater can change since i just found out my husband cheated. He confessed on his own. so im gonna give him the benefit of the doubt on this one. however it was recent nov-jan, 4 times sex. not a full blown affair. had it been a flown blown affair over time or with even those 2 months but a constant everyday emotional type thing im not sure i could have forgiven him. with your being for years and since you met i would say i highly doubt she would change. is you relationship lacking in something?
we found out our problem was i wasnt giving him enough sex and basically sending him out into the arms of another woman. believe me i wont make that mistake again. try to sit down and talk to her, make her talk to you about whats going on cause this could be her way of trying to break it off with you. see a counselor together. good luck.
2007-03-10 12:53:46 · answer #7 · answered by maylene1852 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is casual sex so important to people? I always asked myself this question. I think it`s the excitement of something new and not getting caught. Your wife may be mentally ill and need therapy. Cheating once, happens, cheating for years is a cry for help. I feel bad for her, she`s emotionally empty..It`s hard to be a women and cheat, we put our emotions in it....
2007-03-10 17:05:33 · answer #8 · answered by lost2day 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My opinion. No, she will never be faithful to you. Why did you marry her? Why have you stuck with her for so long? I know. I know. You love her--and love is blind. I think it is time for you to wake up and decide what you want. Unhappiness, hurts, sorrow, pain, or a better life???
Good Luck.
2007-03-10 13:33:57 · answer #9 · answered by old_woman_84 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no because if she's been doing that for 2 1/2 years then she will probably be doing it again if you forgive her cause then she'll think oh he'll just forgive me again
2007-03-10 12:38:03 · answer #10 · answered by robert f 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋