she asked me to marry her
2007-03-10 04:25:57 · 12 answers · asked by paultoledo34 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Shes a cheap whore, slu,t , useless bitc,h, scum queen . You may wont to divorce her .
2007-03-10 04:39:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your last line says "she asked me to marry her", so I'm going to assume that you're not married yet. She's been cheating on you for 2 1/2 years now while just living with you. I think obviously she knows she can cheat on you and get away with it. She enjoys having her cake and eating it too. I think you secretly enjoy the fact that she's cheating and you find it hard to admit it to yourself. Also,, maybe the person or persons she's cheating with have a really "large" organ, and yours just isn't fulfilling enough to her. She could "mentally" love you, but just need something larger to give her the physical pleasure that women deserve.
2007-03-10 08:44:30 · answer #2 · answered by Candice B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I simply don't believe you can hurt somebody you love like that ! To me there is no greater pain than to be cheated on by the person you married. So much confusion, hurt, mistrust and pain. And yes, you love you wife very much and that is the reason why you are staying with her for so long. But where do one draw the line? when is enough enough? I think you can fall into this pattern of forgiving and hoping that things will change. But to be honest, i don't think it wil. And i cannot tell you what to do,but don't you think it is time to move on?
2007-03-10 04:59:27 · answer #3 · answered by bibi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she apparently does not know what love is....because if she did love you ......... she would have never cheated. How do you think she would feel if it were you cheating for 2 1/2 years.....pretty POed. I would suggest moving on......you cannot be expected to forget about the affair(s) that she has had and her being in bed with other men.....forgiving is one thing, but forgetting is another. She needs to grow up, and mature a great deal, apparently she got married b4 she was adult enough to handle it.
2007-03-10 04:34:35 · answer #4 · answered by mrs_endless 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are just liars and/or cheaters. That's a real possibility here. Or she could have deep issues. She could have self-esteem issues that cause her to grasp for attention wherever she can find it. Or she could have a biochemical imbalance, such as bi-polar disorder, that prevents her from handling her urges appropriately, especially when in a manic state. Some counseling for her may be helpful. And perhaps to screen for chemical imbalances. In any event, its up to her to commit to correcting this problem. If she can't or won't, then you will have to rethink this relationship and do what's best for you. Meanwhile, make the condom your friend; both to protect you from STD's and to avoid bringing an innocent child into this already complicated and unstable relationship.
2007-03-10 04:51:13 · answer #5 · answered by Tom K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, I'm just gonna be blunt. Someone who hurts you doesn't love you. Generally you don't hurt people you care about, and one of the major factors of love is care. What ever problem you have been having with your wife doesn't give her permission to go sleep with someone else. You didn't do anything wrong. There is absolutely no excuses what so ever, truthfully the excuse "I just slipped into a sexual relationship with someone other than yourself". Truthfully when your "wife" is sleeping with someone else shes acting like she doesn't like you and i don't understand how she can say she loves you after doing that to you, because she acted like someone who couldn't give to shits with you. Obviously she isn't trust worthy and you shouldn't believe her when she says she loves you, cheating gets easier every time someone does it, it only feels bad the first time when it feels morally wrong because your betraying someones trust. So I'm pretty sure she will do it again... just don't believe her and find another woman who wont betray your trust and truthfully care about you.
2007-03-10 04:39:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why people want to get married and cheat on the one they are support to love ....... you should ask her how would she feel if you did this to her ?????? I know that 2 wrongs don't make it right but you need to let her know how that hurts
2007-03-10 04:32:13 · answer #7 · answered by Libra 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she tells u she loves u because she is not ready to get a divorce, a woman who loves a man will not betray him, and hurt him. she needs u, and may love u, but certainly is not in love with u, and is very immature. if she has cheated on u the entire time, it is time to free yourself from this and move on in life. life is just too short to have to share your mate, or be lied to.
2007-03-10 04:33:24 · answer #8 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cos she's insincere & faithless. Sorry to hear about what happened. Real love means not cheating. You should divorce her and move on.
2007-03-10 04:31:08 · answer #9 · answered by Bugsy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its not that she dosn't love you. I think she neds to find herself and do some growing up. Do not marry her!
2007-03-10 04:29:20 · answer #10 · answered by ~N3VA W0ULD HAV3 MAD3 IT~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋