why is it difficult to get true love......?

Question

I mean people are selfish in thier relationships..although we may boast of true love in our relationships but if we look deep inside then most of us find that their is not that deep and true love in our relationships, which we crave for.........

Answer 1

Becuase of lack of ability to understand what true love is. Most of the times, we mistake short term attraction for love. One doesn't need to hunt for true love. It will find it's way to reach you unless you mess up.

All the best...

:-)

Answer 2

Love is that which is not an easy to discribe because every body wants love from other side. The true thing is that expectation of everything is high and giving is less if all of us start giving and in the result the love itself comes out from the other side. Its not an easy job for all to do so but do it one the result will come out. only give up and then feel the true picture will be there in front of all.

Answer 3

We r not honest n true enough with ourselves when it comes 2 relationship. We tend 2 create 'fantasy' relationship when we r in 1. When this fantasy is not meet, we'll give excuses tat true love is difficult 2 get. If all individual r true n honest enough when they r in a relationship then all will b able to experience true love.

Answer 4

In Thirukural, it is said that a little release from hug makes her (lady love)fall sick. Do you think it is possible in real world. When the stomach is empty, if you can have food only if you forget her, you tend to atleast pretend to forget her and take the food. If one is very sensetive, it will prick for sometime otherwise there wont be any bad feeling. The percentage of love changes from person to person. But the fact remains that there cannot a tru love as envisaged in books/stories.

Answer 5

There is no such thing as true love. Any love can be true if we try hard and work through our problems. You can grow together in a relationship that that can make it true. But you have to work at it.

Answer 6

i think of it relies upon on the couple. For me i even have self assurance that i chanced on true love (to others i may appear like each and every the different females who say that yet finally end up breaking apart) and in case you be responsive to one yet another ok, settle for one yet another for who we are as someone then it somewhat is not somewhat complicated. I advise not each and every thing must be complicated to be seen true love.

Answer 7

First what is love.
In my perception, love is aching for some one despite differences of opinion at worst times.

You want them not to suffer even if you have mis understandings or differences of opinions.

True love is somehow or other your want your feelings to get converted to actions in order to satisfy or help the other
Who said it is difficult to get true love
Pl. do not say that.
what your mother has on you
that is the example of true love
do not see only in your circle . pl see around

Answer 8

It's difficult to get true love because most people seek love in all the wrong places and people.

When two people really love each other their love is unconditional. Love is a gift and should be treated as so. When my husband and I met each other when only had the use of our cell phones, landline phones and email. Because we've lived 35,000 miles from each other. How do we sustain this relationship just talking 2 1/2 hours daily for the first year before we'd married.

To love someone mentally, spiritually, emotionally and unconditionally both has to desire the same level of committment for each other no matter what. In order, to have longetivity throughout their lives both have to love each other as they love themselves nothing more nothing less and everything else in their lives will prosper, their kids, careers, family time, hobbies, whatever it may be, because they want the best for each other.

My husband doesn't need to explain when something is wrong because I'm in tune to his feelings, needs and desires as he does for me. We are committment to each other that we are in this journey of life together to experience the good and bad with each other. We support each other in everyway, and when we have differences of opinion there's not shouting, name calling or such because what would that prove or what would we gain from that--nothing.

To experience true love is to seek someone who needs and wants to give true love.

I will tell you this I'm so satisfied with my husband and all areas of my life. My husband always tell me that he looks forward to loving me all the days of our lives and when were in our 70's walking on the beach will be just as in love as teenagers. I'm his missing rib and he's everybreath I take until death due us part. One more thing, we have fun and enjoy each other and we've accepted our similiarities and differences. He's east indian and hindu and I'm african/filopino american and christian--tell me what does this matter when love is the foundation of our existence. My husband is my king, my prince, my heart beat, my breath, my teenage lover, my confidante, my lover, my best friend and my gift that God has sent me. I cherish his love forever and even in the after world, we are bind together because of true, unconditional love. Your spirit, heart, mind & body will tell you when you've met your soulmate--you just have to be ready to receive her/him.

Answer 9

love is a

seed of care

leaves of affection

breaches of feeling and faith.

it needs water of time and truth

fruits of smile, and togetherness

Patience is the gardener

just tell me can we give that much time? NO!!! NO!!!! NO!!!!

why, b,coz we want everything fast in life

that is way it is difficult nower days dear

Answer 10

its not difficult.who said its difficult?its a very beautiful relationship.trust others every thing in ur hands