We say sorry casually so many times but we feel shy of saying sorry where it is really required and will help in healing the wounds caused by hurting others feelings.
2007-03-10 04:21:30 · 13 answers · asked by Rahul 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
It requires a big heart and good heart to say Sorry...
when someone is unncecessarily hurt by someone.
But sometimes due to anger or heat of arguments
we hurt our loved ones... and by saying sorry you
will not only show your repentance but also goodness.
I feel we have to reserve our "Sorry" for those who deserve!
2007-03-10 05:07:22 · answer #1 · answered by vasudev s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the way you were raised and trained by your parents. They probably had trouble apologizing to you when they were wrong. As a parent, it's hard to apologize and admit weakness when you feel that you are emotionally and intellectually superior.
It's easy to say you're sorry to a stranger or casual friend because there is no long term emotional attachment. With a loved one, you have to hold to your apology and keep the promise that it won't happen again that may go with the apology. With a loved one, you are making yourself vulnerable when you apologize because they may turn down your apology and make you feel rejected and hurt.
The other reason we don't apologize is that we take the continued love from our loved ones for granted. We assume they will forgive us and love us no matter what we do or say. With a stranger or casual friend, we have no such ready assurance so we try to mend that wound as quickly as we inflict it.
To change this, practice. No matter how strongly you resist making the apology, do it, once. You'll find that your world does not end. You'll find that it was possible to do and will be easier to do the next time around.
2007-03-10 04:42:18 · answer #2 · answered by friendlyadvice 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 01:03:08 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that every one is hesitant in the first confrontation after hurting a loved one's feelings because maybe your worried that they won't view you the same way as they did before they got hurt.
2007-03-10 04:31:15 · answer #4 · answered by lildiz_420 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its because v feel guilty tat v have hurt the one v love....
v feel sorry 4 ourselves tat v landed up in such a situation....
v r afraid tat our SORRY might get unheard, or might not b accepted..... :-(
fear tat v might lose them....n tat too bcoz v hurt them....
2007-03-10 16:47:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes because of pride. and we also feel scared of being rejected in saying sorry-like the other person won't accept it and one ends up feeling worse.
2007-03-10 04:27:36 · answer #6 · answered by C.C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Possibly because we truly felt we were right in what we did, and we worry that apologizing will mean admitting we were wrong, which isn't necessarily so.
2007-03-10 04:29:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's because we are ashamed of admitting we crossed the line, i mean it is embarrassing isnt it?
2007-03-10 04:27:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its just because we hae never told sorry to the person, so we cant say sorry to the person
2007-03-10 04:54:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
coz by human nature we have problem with accepting fact that we were wrong,
other thing is that we often have problem with facing the problem,
2007-03-10 05:31:36 · answer #10 · answered by mrangelosd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋