suppose a couple has a child and they both love their child but they don't get along well because of minor issues like ego problems in the wife and they get seperated, can they live happilly afterwards.... if they love their child.
2007-03-10 04:16:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
When you get married, life is not longer about you, it is about your spouse. When you have children it is no longer JUST baotu your spouse, it is abotu your children. When/IF you become divorced it's no longer abotu each other AT ALL, it is SOLELY abotu your children. If you can keep that in mind then yes it will be OK.
2007-03-10 04:19:37 · answer #1 · answered by Betsy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting along well with the other ,whether at office or at home is the foundation for a happy living.
In the triangle of love in the family between the three,namely husband ,wife and a child all three links are important for love to sustain ,prosper and grow.
You are saying ,you both love your child and the ego problem of your wife is a minor issue but what prevents you to get along with your wife? Your ego which is invisible to you?
If separated from your wife, you are depriving your child the devoted attention by both the parents for no fault of hers and you want the child to blame fate when grown up?
If you can not tolerate and adjust with the ego of your wife, which is likely to change for the better in due course of time and as she gains more maturity, at least for the sake of your beloved child, how will be able to adjust with another person if you form a family again?
Please "think thrice "before you decide to part with your beloved child and your most beoved wife once and take a conscious decision ,weighing the pros and cons for the better.
However, if you both are opting for separation, both of you can live happily but it depends a lot on the new partners you both choose for the rest of your lives and the happiness of the child is not at all guaranteed .
Pl. consult a marriage counsellor ,parents and well wishers and decide.
Remember the old saying," Known devil is better than unknown Angel".
WISH YOU GOOD LUCK FOR A EGO COMPROMISED BUT A VERY HAPPY MARRIED LIFE FOR EVER!
2007-03-12 18:36:34 · answer #2 · answered by NQS 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They can live happily because it is better to be divorced than be in a relationship which has no future. It is unfortunate for the child but they can make an arrangement to bring up the child in the best possible way. The custody of the child can be with the parent who can support the child financially and the other parent can meet the child as per the divorce agreement.
2007-03-10 04:29:39 · answer #3 · answered by Rahul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before u divorce get some therapy, when one marries, its than suppose to be about the other persons happiness, not yours, it is a pretty lame excuse to leave a spouse, with so much therapy available out there now. a child is always better off with both parents. after divorce, well let me see, it isn't all it is cracked up to be, it is lonely, it hurts, divorce should only happen if your getting abused, or if u have been betrayed, but if it is minor issues, than one should make an effort for the child to stay in spite of your circumstances. as circumstances do change, so do people.
2007-03-10 04:26:24 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Getting along" has many definitions. You two must be cordial to each other for the sake of the child. The child does not deserve to be witness to you two arguing or fighting. Also, a note to both of you.....do not use the child as a pawn for power. I have seen many parents fight for control of the child simply to piss the other parent off. This will hurt the child in the long run. But you both have to lay down ground rules as to how you will behave towards each other.
2007-03-10 04:22:17 · answer #5 · answered by Gary M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My parents are happilly divorced :D They have both gotten together with other people and they both see us children. It isn't that difficult to "share"
2007-03-10 05:36:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is harder when there are children involved. But I have seen situations where the parents get along better after divorce than they got along when they were married. so yes I suppose it is possible.
2007-03-10 04:26:40 · answer #7 · answered by smilingblonde85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, they can. It is possible. My brother and ex-sister in law get alone so much better now that they are divorced than when they were married. They have two little girls. And get this...haha... both my brother and his ex wife live in the same apartment complex.
2007-03-10 04:21:20 · answer #8 · answered by Whispers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well yes whats that have to do with the love of your child
2007-03-10 04:28:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think when path is one and when 2 person cannot go together on that path than how can they b happy
if they love their child than they hav to make him happy not to there self, just be happy for him and make him happy by all means
divorce - die all wars so just b friend and b happy this should b the motive of them
byeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
2007-03-10 04:25:56 · answer #10 · answered by sweety 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋