Following marriage can a person change? What do you think? I have heard about some people whose professional lives were affected after marriage in positive or negative ways (these may be rumours however). Mentally is it not possible that one part of attention is devoted to family and so one cannot remain the man as before?
2007-03-10 04:11:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
YOU WILL GET EXTRA RESPONSIBILITY. SOMETIMES YOU WILL HAVE TO DIVERT TOWARDS HER.
2007-03-10 15:27:40 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you talk about nature, you are talking about how they were raised, their moral and ethical values. You are talking about everything they have learnt in this life.....so no, I dont think people change their nature...that means changing their personality, and thats a pretty hard thing to do. What I do think can and does happen is compromise....a person will compromise if they love and respect you. They will compromise because they know without it, the relationship will only ever be one sided and filled with arguements of who is right and who is wrong. If you can respect your partner...respect the fact that he/she has certain values that you may not hold, then there doesnt need to be any changes of a persons personality. If you can agree to disagree, then thats fine....if you want to change or mould someone into who you want them to be, then you are going to end up miserable...because the one who wants to change the person will end up the controller. More people need to discuss their expectations before marriage, eg....find out where they stand with family/love as apposed to their career...if they love their career and define success in the position they hold and the amount of money they make, then that is a pretty strong indication that you will either have to accept that and find ways to deal with it and realise that career will always come first. Never go into a marriage if you think it will change someone....it never works. You have to accept the person as they are pre-marriage...if there are things you dont like about him/her then decide if they are traits that have been developed over a long period of time and work out if you have the patience to try and undo years of conditioning. I guess the most simplest way of deciding this, is to ask yourself, how would you feel if your spouse wanted to change something about you that he didnt like but you felt was fine.....thats what it boils down to. A marriage is between two individuals.....you compromise...you dont become one.....We all come from different backgrounds...we are moulded into who we are by the influences in our lives, and if those influences are negative ones, but it happens over a long period of time, then that becomes a part of that person. If you can accept and respect the differences and not want to change your partner, then that is what will make a successful marriage......but discuss whatever is concerning you and find out if your partner is prepared to compromise...if he/she isnt, then you wont have a chance of changing anyone.
2007-03-10 04:30:50 · answer #2 · answered by rightio 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes , it changes definitely depending upon the post marriage scenario in the same manner as after getting employed after completing one's educations. To change continuously is human natural behaviour irrespective of b coz of marriage or otherwise , all being parts of life. If one keeps balance between his domestic & professional life , one does not even feel of it. Wife's positive & co operative nature is key to good, constructive & all acceptable acceptable changes , no doubt. Here lies the proper utilization of her education, real calibre , reasonableness understanding & adjustments making life heavenlike happy, undoubtedly.
2007-03-12 02:09:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,
We have lot of possibilities of changing mind,behaviour and character of a human after marriage.
I know many people those have been fully changed.
actually marriage make us responsible and more social.
Life is incomplete without marriage.
2007-03-10 04:17:40 · answer #4 · answered by Girish Sharma,yahoo superstar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello friend !
the answer is definitely yes. b'caz when a man is a bachelor he is free to do thing of his own. parents are there to take care. But when it comes to marriage , thre is a family depending on him completely. he has to face different things and he has many duties and roles to play,as a father , hubby, family head , office etc....
2007-03-10 04:37:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
alongwith marriage comes responsibility. u cannot b a freebird or work late always. u need to give time to ur family. but that does not mean it shud in anyway affect anybodys career or profession negatively.
a wise man knows well to juggle his time among his personal and professional life.
2007-03-10 04:25:34 · answer #6 · answered by purna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Certainly.
2007-03-14 01:12:12 · answer #7 · answered by Bee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some of them become hen-pecked. Some of them become more aggressive - cause domestic violence, due to doubt occurred from surroundings. Some of them are running normal family life.
2007-03-10 04:17:17 · answer #8 · answered by Expression 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people can do a complete 360.
2007-03-10 04:17:06 · answer #9 · answered by ntkwilliamson@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wat marriage is a part of life u should get married only that will give u a purpose of life make u live know the reasons of living
2007-03-12 05:26:15 · answer #10 · answered by tamanaahamed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋