i dont swing that way, but i would like to say so in a way that wont end r friendship.
2007-03-10 04:01:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just thank her that she feels that way but say that you don't feel the same way but you still like her as a friend. :3 I am sure she will understand. I have many homosexual and bisexual friends who have discussed this situation before and they still end up friends with the person. Good luck :3
2007-03-10 05:30:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oooh difficult one this!! I would maybe invite her out for lunch telling her that you want a chat both of you should discuss what she has said and you can tell her in the nicest possible way that you do not feel the same and that you do not want to lose her friendship over this. Hopefully she will be alright with that and it will not affect you both.
Good Luck
2007-03-10 12:05:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know the feeling...my best friend wanted me to come over her house so bad becuz she wanted us 2 girls to have sex... I just told her that it would really be strange for the 2 of us if we did that. Why ruin our 10 yr best friendship over something so taboo.... I think it would. I know for sure I would feel really strange around her, I kinda do just for her asking me that... GOOD LUCK WITH THAT! P.S. Of course the men would answer you that way...lol
2007-03-10 12:18:11 · answer #3 · answered by lyndsangel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She must be used to getting turned down in similar situations.
It should go well.
Include the concept of "I'm sooooo flattered!" That's always good for avoiding giving offense when you say "No".
2007-03-10 12:38:43 · answer #4 · answered by Curt Monash 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her you are so flattered but you wish to only be friends then you can suggest that you get together for a non intamate outing like shopping--this lets her know you are not put off by her telling you this. It was probaly just as hard for her to tell you she likes you that way as you think it will be to tell her no thanks.
2007-03-10 12:06:48 · answer #5 · answered by dinkylynn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell the truth. I am sure she will understand. As long as you don't hurt her feelings. Say that you enjoy her company, and would like to remain friends, but you are not gay.
2007-03-10 12:05:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her thats cool, but you don't swing that way. It's not going to hurt her feelings, not everybody has curiosities that lean that way.
2007-03-10 12:05:21 · answer #7 · answered by Trish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her your flattered but this just isn't your thing. Tell her you also value her friendship that you hope the two of you can continue.
2007-03-10 12:06:08 · answer #8 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her exactly what you feel. It wont end as bad as you think.
2007-03-10 12:04:20 · answer #9 · answered by soccerdogg6 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
good friends share. i wish i would be there.
but seriously she likes you probably because you are too shy to say what you think straight on. Just do it.
2007-03-10 12:06:20 · answer #10 · answered by Di Snow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋