nervous.. idk why?

Question

okay. im not a virgin.
and i love being with my boyfriend. physically.
for some reason im nervous to have sxe with him again.
i lost it 2 him.
we've done it like 6-10 times.
idk why im nervous....

im 14.
and if u are gonna critize me DONT ANSWER.
we use protection.
and our relationship is fine.
i love him but idk
ive never been nervous b4....

Answer 1

i thinks its cool that your 14 and r still togethere and that you use protection well don't be nerves and just go with the flow of things and mabey you could tell him how u r felling and mabey he is feeling the same way and i love how u r still togetery

Answer 2

Yep, it's the pregnancy thing. I'm not sure how old you are, but it sounds like you have a lot you want to do with your life and you know that having a baby now will interfere with some of your plans. If you are still in high school, then you really shouldn't be having sex, I know I sound like a prude but you are still not emotionally ready for adult-type relationships. If you feel like you want to keep having sex with your boyfriend, get put on the pill, and make him use condoms. That way you are doubly protected, although nothing is 100%. You could also be nervous because you are unsure of where your relationship is headed or if you want it to continue. Good Luck, I hope you figure it out.

Answer 3

You are 14 and that is what 14 year olds having sex with there boyfriends do .. get nervous. As you have crossed the line by your choice and that is OK. But you have not told yourself that is it OK. You body, mind and soul know that have sex at this early age is not completely right. But you have had it. You can not take it back. You are not passed the kids and teenage stage and right into adulthood. You say you use protection and that tell us that you are a very responsible young lady. Good for you. You feelings are normal, and you should try to limit your sexual activities with him. Just like married women do to there husbands after the honeymoon. Sex is really an adult activity and your body is just telling you this. Welcome to the party my dear. The problem is if you stop giving sex to your boyfriend he will not understand as he is a man and men think differently about sex than young ladies like you. So all you can do is talk to him, and tell him how you feel. That to is part of having sexual relationship with your boyfriend. Try to explain that you get nervous and that you don't like the way you feel. Then take it from there.

Answer 4

listen to this im 13 im going to turn 14 on 3/24/07. i am in a relationship too and my mom does know that ihave a boyfriend so i have a lot of stress but i dont really care because i love him. so as for you it might be stress which i doubt, that your having second thoughts, dont want to have a baby rite now, or you dont love him any more maybe because he did something to you (its different with every person)

Answer 5

think about other forms of birth control besides condoms. they arent 100 percent effective as im sure you already know. think about going on the pill. are you afraid of getting pregnant? maybe that is why you are nervous. you can go to any planned parenthood and get on the pill for free. good luck

Answer 6

oh well im 15 and i feel the same way some of the time. maybe your just scared you somehow might get pregnant. or that your parents might find out. i know thats why im nervous sometimes!

Answer 7

You're probably afraid to get pregnant. It is always a risk. I think maybe you should take a break and figure out why you're nervous about it. And remember, ALWAYS use protection.

Answer 8

Maybe your nervous because your afraid of getting pregnant.

Stop being a little whore and be a normal teen,if you end up getting pregnant you can kiss your teenage years goodbye and say hello to forced adulthood. Plus don't expect your boyfriend to stick around if you end up pregnant. He will dump you so fast you won't know wat hit you. Young teen dads rarely ever stick around.

A lot of people don't have respect for young girls who are like you, I know I don't.

My cousin got pregnant at 14 and had her baby at 15 because she fooled around like a little whore. She had to give up her normal teen life for an adult life and she regretted it. Her boyfriend took off when she got pregnant, and because she was the whore she was...she ended up getting pregnant again.

Answer 9

hmmm, mabey ur nervous of getting pregnent? ur u dont feel comfertable cuz of something u did last time with him?.... its really hard to say y ur nervouse if uve had sex with him already so many times.

Answer 10

Sometimes the more you do it you get nervous. The only thing I can tell you is to either get over the nervousness and do what you please or don't have sex again.