My fiance has been having an affair with a married woman for the past several months while he has been away he is coming home soon and he told her he leaving but she keeps telling him he be back.
As soon as he is back we get married we love each other and i know she means nothing to him.
Should i mail her the copy of our marrage licence after we get married our would a phone call be enough?
2007-03-10 03:54:05 · 14 answers · asked by Just Me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She'll find out. The joke's on her. Just make sure he is fully committed to you. He needs to change his phone number, email accounts etc. So the contact stops completely and in the open.
2007-03-10 04:00:44 · answer #1 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the story of Lady Di and Prince Charles I hope.
How would you married a man who is having an affair while engage?
That woman is married and she won't care if he gets married, so no phone call or nothing like that can stop future encounters.
Are you the kind of women that think he'll change once he's married?
Open up you eyes before it's too late.
2007-03-10 04:01:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really doesn't matter what you choose to do because you have nothing to do with this relationship. They will probably continue doing what they have been doing whether you have a marriage license or not. You'd better get used to being cheated on.
I'm not being cruel. These are hard, cold facts. A cheater does not stop. Girl, why are you settling for this man? Find someone who cares about you and respects you. If you aren't good enough for this jerk during the engagement, what on earth makes you think being married to him will make it better?
2007-03-10 04:00:48 · answer #3 · answered by Lois M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont think showing her your marriage certificate would do a lot of good....she is married herself and knows first hand that marriage doesnt mean a thing......well, at least to her it doesnt. Him marrying you, and you knowing she doesnt mean a thing to him, if she trully understands that to be the truth, and if he has made it plain to her, then you dont need to give her any proof.....but the question that is really on my mind.......why are you marrying him? Why did he feel the need to have an affair when he knew he was going to be married?.....doesnt makes a lot of sense to me. The next question, and this is a biggie.....be honest too......how will you ever be able to really trust him? Its not a real good way to start off married life together.
Whatever you choose to do....good luck, because I think you are going to need it. When you get married and when you least expect it, he will be at work one day and you will be wondering what he is really doing.....wondering if he is seeing someone else.....he has betrayed you, and while it may never happen again....the distrust is there...you may have pushed it to the back of your mind, but I guarantee there will be times when you will distrust him.....all because he betrayed you once.
2007-03-10 04:07:26 · answer #4 · answered by rightio 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My coronary heart breaks for you. That should be the worst element a threat to handle. I hate to assert this yet i extremely have self assurance as quickly as a cheater continuously a cheater. that's distinctive while your in severe college and that's basically a boyfriend yet you adult males are engaged. that's uncalled for. She would not deserve you. If she relatively loves you she could have on no account performed that, she could have nevertheless approximately how lots it could have harm you. She basically cared approximately herself and getting off. She'll do it returned once you're away especially because of the fact it became along with her infant's daddy. that's not such as you could say do never see him returned. he will continuously be a factor of your existence in case you marry her so who's to assert she would be in a position to not do it returned.
2016-10-01 21:34:11 · answer #5 · answered by liptak 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see how there is any reason to tell her anything at all..
If you have decided to forgive your fiance for cheating with her, and you two are happy together, then she shouldn't even matter to you anymore. When you forgive someone, I mean truly forgive them.. you should just let the entire issue go. There's no reason for you to have any contact with her.
Besides, I'm sure she'll figure it all out for herself when he doesn't go back to her.
Just focus on your relationship. Don't waste your time trying to prove anything to the "other woman".
Take care!
2007-03-10 04:18:08 · answer #6 · answered by arkiegirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marrying him will not keep him from being with her. and if she meant nothing to him, he would not have had an affair with her. yes u can tell her, but it may not mean a thing to her, as she seems to have no morals, and neither does he. if he cheated on u before he will cheat on u after also.
2007-03-10 04:01:09 · answer #7 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do either. Unless you feel like gloating. That is not a becoming trait. You have your prize. Your husband. Your two-timing rat of a man. I hope you will be happy. By making her miserable, will make you happy?? Boy do you have a lot to learn.
2007-03-10 03:58:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where are all you desperate woman coming from? You may as well have her move in with you two your sharing the same meat anyway.
2007-03-10 04:15:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you even bother..Unless you just want to gloat..besides, telling her just keeps the door open for further indiscretions
2007-03-10 03:59:59 · answer #10 · answered by nalla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋