how do i tell my mom?

Question

i got suspened from school and i she doesn't like me to get in trouble so how in the hell i am going to tell her?and it was from a food fight and its 3days

she doesn't know she didn't answer her phone

Answer 1

Just sit her down and let her know. Shes going to have to know cus the shcools going to call her and its better she gets the facts from you first before she over reacts from what the school says

Were others suspended...? just let her know that your soryy, it was stupid, wont hppen again, your willing to do extra chores to make up for it etc.

Gees your school seems pretty strict.at my school , well depending on how bad the food fight really was, would probably give saturday detention or something.

Answer 2

You just have to tell her, bite the bullet and do it. She is going to find out anyway, parents always do. So it would be better if she found out from you, so at least some trust is retained. After that do your best to do really well in school and not get in trouble, it will take awhile I'm sure, but it's better than her not trusting you. Ultimately parents always want what is best for their kids, and she knows you can do better. Good Luck.

Answer 3

Some people forget what it was like....Just tell her ..."hey mom, i got involved in something stupid the other day...." Trust me, she is going to be happy your not in trouble for drugs or pregnant. Surely she knows that kids will be kids, they are going to do stupid things, such as have a food fight! But with those stupid things, comes consequences....expect her to ground you. She should make sure these 3 days are not spent having fun. Kids will do stupid things, and it is up to their parents to enforce consequences. Don't be so scared, parents expect their children to get into some trouble, they did when they were young! But just as they expect you to get into some trouble sometime, expect her to punish you!

Answer 4

I would say to tell her that there was a food fight at school today, so on and so on. Then tell her that you got pulled into it because you where there. Then tell you that you had no part in it but you still got suspended. Unless she has a meeting with your principal, then it wont work. Good Luck!

Answer 5

wow she is going to find out either way, so its better you tell her first. Its going to be hard, she will get mad, but tell her you will call your friends to see whats on in class, not to get behind and that even you are suspended, you will study. Show her that you have learned the lessons that you are sorry, you wont do it again, make her see you are really concerned about it. Also add tht you cant do anything to change past actions, but you can learn from them in other not to repeat the same. Show how you feel about what happened.
hope it helps .

Answer 6

It's only a food fight...I know she won't be happy but it could be worse. Tell her the truth and take what she dishes out and please try your best to keep your mouth closed. That was what always got my back up when one of my children started arguing with me. Just let her get everything off her chest and take it like a trooper. Years from now you will both laugh over it...believe me.

Answer 7

Be honest, that's all you can do. Make it up by doing the house chores while your home. And try your darnedest to stay out of trouble for now on.
A food fight is really immature so she'll probably be very upset.
Kiss that butt!!

Answer 8

I got in trouble a lot in high school....This is BAD advice but I never would tell my mom. I would pretend to go to school and then just not. Eventually she found out(as mom's seem to always do!) My GOOD advice would be to talk to your mom, she may get mad and ground you but when she finds out from another source, you'll be in even bigger trouble because you didn't tell her.

Answer 9

dont let some screw balls limit your rights or your education go to the library its free and read only things you like there will be no one laughing at you or making fun of you or giving you a hard time for trying your hardest and no jerky security people hurrassing you unless your intrested in being a criminal take the little vacation as a gift and better your self there tell your ma if you like but you know she is going to give you hell but if you go to the library during the time your supposed to be in school how are you not getting an education think what is your dream are you having any sparks of what you might be intrested in i think that is a safe place for you to go and i dont think anybody would know were your at and it would take up your time like you were at school take a lunch

Answer 10

I think you should first tell her what happened at school not including you being suspended. Then say that some people at school got suspended. First wait for a reaction. Then tell her that you were one of those people.