virgo + aries?

Question

i am a virgo sun, virgo moon.
he is an aries sun, gemini moon.

we've been in a relationship for 8 months, broke up, and 7 months later got back together. we are currently together, but we fight constantly about small and pointless things. is this a relationship worth continuing?

Answer 1

Virgo and Aries

When Aries and Virgo come together, they may at first think they have nothing in common and not much to learn from each other. This is a relationship that takes time to develop, and each partner must learn to understand where the other is coming from. In many ways, Aries and Virgo are opposites: Aries is brash, dominant, and aggressive, always jumping into new things, usually impatient. Virgo is detail oriented and quiet, even shy, and works patiently toward goals. Because of their many differences, Aries and Virgo can learn a great deal from each other once they look beyond the surface.

Early in the relationship, Aries and Virgo may see nothing in each other but their faults. Aries may seem too brash, and Virgo may seem fussy. But once they stop learning about each others' faults and begin focusing on their strengths, they'll discover a great deal. Aries teaches Virgo about fun and excitement, about the spontaneity that is often missing in Virgo's life. Virgo teaches Aries patience and attention to detail, the knowledge that the little things are important too. Aries may feel Virgo is overcritical, but they will teach their partner to take things less seriously. Virgo may accuse Aries of being ill-mannered and impulsive, but can teach them to be polite and value hard work.

Aries is ruled by the Planet Mars, and Virgo is ruled by the Planet Mercury. The soldiers of Mars want to rush out and fight, without preplanning or strategizing. Conversely, Virgo wants to analyze everything and work out all the details before committing to action. Both Signs need to take the time to see the value of their partner's approach; Aries can teach Virgo to be less critical and more spontaneous, at the same time gaining stability from Virgo's even keel.

Aries is a Fire Sign, and Virgo is an Earth Sign. Aries begins a new project based on whim and interest, while Virgo is more analytical. Virgo will weigh all options before devoting their serious effort, while Aries simply sees what they want and dives in! Although these partners may find it difficult to walk in their partner's shoes, when they work together they make an excellent business team and an efficient couple based on their differing approaches.

Aries is a Cardinal Sign, and Virgo is a Mutable Sign. Virgo doesn't need to be the leader or the boss; when they are given a viable suggestion and see a role for them self in it, they are glad to follow the suggestion. Aries, on the other hand, is the one who makes the suggestion in the first place and assigns roles to the other participants. Their lack of conflict over roles helps Aries and Virgo work on the same project with great success.

The best aspect of the Aries-Virgo relationship is their great effectiveness as a team -- business or personal. Metaphorically as well as literally, Aries gets attention and respect by being out in the field doing sales and marketing, while Virgo works hard behind the scenes, balancing the books and following up on details that no longer interest Aries. Their personalities, opposite in so many ways, make for a highly complementary relationship.

With the Moon in the mutable earth sign of Virgo in your chart, you have an instinctive need to be of service to others in some way, not in the sense of being a servant, you simply feel comfortable with yourself if you can be of help to others. You will have a fine sense of discrimination and a strong analytical ability, that is, you have a natural ability to separate a problem or situation into its component parts, and perceive the relationships between these parts. It is in this way that you can be of help to others. There may be a tendency to worry too much, or to be over critical if others do not come up to your perfectionist standards. You are a naturally tidy person, but this can be taken to extremes. In your domestic and emotional life, you may be rather conventional, probably as a result of your childhood experience of your mother.

Gemini is a mutable air sign. With the Moon in this sign, your emotional and instinctive reactions are versatile and adaptable. There is a genuine intellectual ability, and an inner need for constant intellectual and social stimulation in order to feel secure emotionally. There is a need to be involved in several different activities at once, and you find it difficult to settle down to a strict and rigid routine. The inner need for a variety of associations, if uncontrolled, can lead to a constant change in your emotions, making it difficult for even you to know how you really feel. You can give the impression of being fickle and superficial in your emotional responses.

Answer 2

Virgo With Aries: Here is one that may be worth the time and trouble to work out. At first Aries may find that all the attention to detail, and perfectionist ways of the Virgo annoying, but on the other hand, Virgo can introduce you to the discipline and details that you need to make yourself more then you thought you could be. It can be a good balance if you work on bringing out the loving side of Virgo; they will also find their existence expanded and their life richer and fuller for it. virgo and aries - astrological compatibility rank = 4 (10 is best) In other areas Aries is full of exciting new plans and ideas, and insists on being boss. Virgo is critical and fussy, and likes things to be done the way he wants. They end up making war, not love and do not blend well astrologically

Answer 3

SUN in VIRGO with ARIES Honesty and a desire for the unadorned truth are virtues you both posses and value, though Virgo takes Aries' honest criticism better than Aries takes Virgo's. Some very basic differences in your makeup can make you uncomfortable with each other at times: Aries tends to throw caution to the wind, while Virgo worries a great deal if all details are not taken care of first. Aries acts NOW, on impulse and intuition, while Virgo wants to think carefully and study the fine print first. Virgo is the more self-analytical of the two of you and Aries is likely to be impatient with this at times. Virgo also tends to be more giving, and may get into the role of assistant or servant to Aries . Both of you need to make a lot of adjustments in order to accommodate the differences between you.

Answer 4

Virgo and Aries: an earth and fire sign together. Aries run on pure emotional instinct and charges full speed ahead. Virgos run on brain power and tend to skip emotion and feeling. Pay your admission to the park because this is going to be an emotional roller-coaster. If their moon and rising signs are not compatible, a love match here, would be a stretch.

Answer 5

hubby and I are the opposite..He is Virgo and I am Aries and we get along wonderfully. We have been married for almost 4 years.

Answer 6

A virgo can love an aires.....it will have little value to the aires.
Move on a.s.a.p.

Answer 7

DONT DO IT! My bro is an ries and hes married to a Virgo female and she is so nit picky, bossy and bitchy. She resents him for having althetic interests and friends. THEY ARE MISERABLE!

Answer 8

Well, both of your moon signs are compatible...