i dont really have time with him as i want to,i never knew it would be this hard to be married to someone who has a wife,we've been married 7months now,i just get really jealous and alone when his with the other woman,dont get me wrong my religion permits him to get more than a wife,so what do i do?i get attracteed to other men and they also get attracted to me,i just feel i deserve more in life than what im getting.please advice me should i stay or should i leave?i just feel like dying when ever he is with the other woman
2007-03-10 03:10:38 · 14 answers · asked by sweetheart 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
bummer....become a Christian, we don't do the multiple wives deal
2007-03-10 03:15:05 · answer #1 · answered by abc 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, being in a religion that permits a man to have relations with other women is hard. If you really want your man to become monogomous, you should tell him how you feel when he leaves you for other women. I dont know if your religion grants divorces, but if he doesn't change his ways, you should leave him for a man that shares your beliefs about monogomy.
2007-03-10 03:19:47 · answer #2 · answered by tjmaxx17 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, it is really a difficult situation. but, u knew what u were getting b4 marriage itself. and bcos u feel unfulfilled, u shud not get into unwanted relations also. keep control so that ur mind does not wander unnecessarily.
also think abt it, the other woman must b going thru the same emotions when ur hubby comes to u.
get along with it, occupy urself by developing ur interest in some other productive things like arts, crafts or anything u like.
2007-03-10 03:33:36 · answer #3 · answered by purna 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You are having normal feelings. The culture you are in is not the norm. You may be staying due to economic reasons and no real options and who can blame you. If you really can't cope with your situation, you may have to make hard choices if any options do come available.
2007-03-10 03:19:42 · answer #4 · answered by Over The Rainbow 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It sounds to me like the religion you chose didn't prepare you for the life you were going to live. Reevaluate your life direction and if you can get out of it, do but, don't make the same mistake next time.
2007-03-10 06:05:39 · answer #5 · answered by Trisha 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think this ever works... ask him if he would have married you, if you already had a husband... when the shoe is on the other foot, it changes all things... if your not comfortable, get out now... it won't get any better...
2007-03-10 03:16:54 · answer #6 · answered by prop4u 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
having two wives always creates heart ache and jealousies. can u get out of it, u made a mistake, and thought it would be different for u. having to share someone leaves u cold and unfulfilled. get out of it if u can do it.
2007-03-10 03:20:56 · answer #7 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Perhaps a change in religion is the best option....Followed by divorce.
2007-03-10 03:17:14 · answer #8 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You knew what you were getting into when you married him.. If you are not happy, ask him for a divorce.
2007-03-10 03:17:00 · answer #9 · answered by BigWashSr 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
what if you both have his babies it'll be harder you sure you like this sharing a husband he is her's too she can say things about you too
2007-03-13 12:35:06 · answer #10 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And how is it possible within the U.S. for him to legally have two wives?
2007-03-10 07:18:10 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋