can men really be happy and faith full to 1 woman for the rest of their life.?

Question

i know women cheat but i really would like to know from a mans point of veiw if men can really stay with 1 woman for ever.

Answer 1

One suggestion....make it exciting. Take time to look your best for him. Buy nice clothes. Remember that guys are very visual. If they like what they see, they fix in on that. Another suggestion is communication. Be open and honest with each other at all times. Even if it means it may hurt. When (if) you have kids, make sure you guys have a "date night" each week. It does not have to be anything expensive. Maybe a picnic or movie. This should be time you 2 have for each other.

Your job is to keep him interested in you! And he should be doing the same as well.

Answer 2

My first husband was faithful, but not much self confidence. After he passed away, I remarried a few years later. To a man I loved more than life itself. My heart was so full of love and happiness. We have been married almost 4 yrs now. However, I caught him emailing a woman and becoming intimate online with her. When I confronted her in an email, which I copied to him, she told me later that he had asked her to meet him in his own country this coming summer. He was planning a trip to "visit family" and had not asked me to come along. Even if we couldn't afford it financially, he should have asked me how I felt about the trip. So apparently, he had a rendevous planned with the skank. I think it is a 30/50 chance that a man might be able to stay faithful to one woman. 30% being he will be faithful. I don't have too much faith in men anymore. I gave it my all, tried to keep him happy, and then get past this last batch of crap with him. He doesn't care.

Answer 3

I find it difficult. I don't believe that humans are naturally monogamous. This is a social construct that varies from culture to culture, and for most of human history people have been polygamous. The ancient Jews were, the Africans still are, Native Americans were polygamous, and so were most Asians. People can be monogamous - there is no doubt about that - but some can only do it in series (serial monogamy, one spouse after another). It all depends on the person.

Answer 4

Im a man and think it is possible to stay with the woman I love and remain faithful. My mom and dad have been married for 42 years my grandparents have been married for 75 years and they are happy so why cant I ? Do i look at other woman? sure! but I dont touch. Its normal to look.

Answer 5

Ofcause but u av 2 find the right man,go to the church, there are plenty of nice men there--if u really want 2 fall in deep love, start goin dancing lessons,n i'm sure there will be some nice men 2

Answer 6

I think as a man i can say that, because i think that i will stay with my girlfriend for the rest of my life.

but there are things you need to know.
for it to work you need to keep the relationship fresh.

try not to get into the same rutine all the time

you have to understand one another

if you argue don't let it boil up talk to one another and resolve the problem.

if you feel that you are in a rutine try and get out of it.

there are many thing we do to try and keep the relationship going it may sound silly but it works, don't get me wrong we are not always saying we have to try these thing. it comes natural when we are argueing, then you find that you are argueing less and being happy together./

i think the first stages of the relationship determines if your going to stay with eact other because that is when you are learning each other.

Answer 7

the answer to this is most definitely.........maybe! ok ok.we can be faithfull,but it takes the right woman,an that doesn't just mean sexy,it means being more than the sum of your parts(there b a word 4 that but i cana think of it now) when we look forward to coming home to see our loved ones is a good sign,when we go out an all we can think about is our partner,these are good things,if a bloke feels like this about his partner,then,i think,he will not get lead astray.ultimately,time will take a toll(an the government will take a tax!) an things may dull,but fear not cos we're just big kids,so re-inventing a few things will have things back to good again! i have cheated,and been cheated on,its not big an its not clever,an it hurts like a bugger,so if things arnt right,do your self a flavour an do somethin about it, blah blah blah................ok........im done!

Answer 8

it is possible Lisa, but it depends on a lot of things. How old the man is; younger men are more likely to stray, for obvious reasons. compatability issues are also important. lastly I believe any man will cheat if he thinks he can get away with it and not get found out. Sorry Guys but it's true.

Answer 9

you're complicated the LDS/Mormon church with Jehovah's Witnesses. JW's are those have self belief that there is a finite type of those which will pass to heaven. I even have study the e book of Mormon numerous situations, and there is not any point out of this record. As for why JW's do what you asked, I have not have been given any clue.

Answer 10

I am pretty sure they can. If we fulfill and meet their desires, wants, and needs, they can be very loyal and faithful. I think most women underestimate them in that specific matter, and in a way, we can be overly judgemental too. It's just the way God created them... we have to accept them as they are... but it also doesn't mean they all will cheat in their relationships.... and then again, it depends on the man himself... so there's hope girls! *crosses fingers*!