In May 2006 my mom met and started dating this guy. I didn't think much of it until October of last year he moved his stuff into our house. After moving his stuff into the house he went away and he returned last weekend. Since he returned last weekend he disabled the alarm system and was on the computer from 5:00 a.m. to 7:00 a.m. When I got on the computer after him he erased the history so no one could know what websites he was looking at, one day when I went to wash some clothes I caught him going through one of the storage closets down stairs. Since he has been here he has been making statements like "this is my house" he and my mom aren't even married. Everyone who sees him feels very uncomfortable around him. What can I do to ensure my safety. Because when I talk to my mom about him she takes his side. Please Help Me
2007-03-10 02:58:57 · 9 answers · asked by FeFe 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
You don't say how old you are!!!
I assume by your typing, your a teen and smart.
It seems to me that you have resources most every place.
Start by contacting child protective services.
The fear your mention will start some concern especially if your telling the truth to us.
Or the sherriff, school, counselors, your local church, your family.
2007-03-10 03:58:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mother should be thinking more about your safety than her happiness. If you are over 15 you can be emancipated if the situation is seriously dangerous. I'm a mother of a three year old, I left my husband because he told me that he wished that we didn't have kids and that he resented my child. My baby comes first. She always will. If you are uncomfortable around him stay away from him, go to a friend's house... have sleep over, don't argue with him because he could be violent, the way you describe him he seems a bit unstable. Have you talked to your father? Tell someone, you should not have to live in fear in your own home.
2007-03-10 03:15:17 · answer #2 · answered by Annabella Stephens 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is just be on extreme alertness. Love can sometimes make a person see pass all the dangers of a person, that is why your mom keeps taking his side. But you not completely sure he's dangerous. Maybe he's just watching porn when he's on the net at certain times in the morning. Or maybe he cheating on your mom. The best advice I can give you is to " be alert" and keep the telephone near you at all times.
2007-03-10 03:15:00 · answer #3 · answered by mahendra d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look him up on the sex offenders web site. I'm not sure of the address but in will vary by state. keyword sex offender and your state and it should pop up, you can also go to sites like people finder.com and purchase and view background checks on people. I'm sorry your mom wont listen to you, but maybe if you have some information and proof in your hand she will start paying attention. Just be careful I would use a friends computer or go to the library so he doesn't know you are researching him.
2007-03-10 03:08:18 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there are a number of themes unmentioned right here. yet particular, i'm able to work out your element in asserting you "think of" this guy's risky. have you ever tried to talk to him to work out how he reacts to it? some those with particularly intense psychological themes can tend to be polarized, brazenly too friendly one time or too secretive on yet another. I advise, till you have well-known, on suitable of that uncomfortable feeling, that he could be particularly risky, take a deep breath and relax slightly. Panic won't assist you whether it facilitates to be very conscious approximately what's occurring. What if he's in simple terms particularly careful approximately people because of the fact of a few themes yet particularly isn't the hurting type? no longer that i'm able to choose that on account that i'm no longer there yet whats up, we are able to all be incorrect at it sluggish. besides, in case you stumble on something it is remarkable (and that i advise remarkable like violent reactions yet without the battery in contact yet), there is not any explanation why you could no longer get the opinion of any social worker or a pastor for coaching. you could no longer overreact. i think of which could shop on with to issues occurring no longer in basic terms on your place yet someplace else. Be alert and right down to earth.
2016-11-23 19:10:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-02-17 18:19:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to someone and let them know what is going on. Try to gather info to present to your mom.
2007-03-10 03:52:19 · answer #7 · answered by pretty_as_me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in school, talk to your counsler about this and if not, talk to a relative. I don't know if the police can do anything about this?
2007-03-10 03:04:10 · answer #8 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um try to prove some evidence if u can, find some things that can make her believe you about him, surely she doesnt believe u but if u can try to prove that he is suspicious then that would be good.
2007-03-10 03:03:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋