My Fiance has spent more time with his ex in the last two days than me, and i've just come out of hospital.
I feel so jealous and it's really getting to me. what should i do??
2007-03-10 02:52:32 · 10 answers · asked by kezz_wales 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
sorry to hear that you've been in hospital. Does your fiance have children with his ex? maybe that is why he has been spending time with her. If not that front him and ask him outright if there is a problem. Explain that you are feeling down at the moment and how worried you feel. If he truely cares for you then he should stop sending time with her and concentrate on you. make sure he is the right one for you before you marry him hunny, you don't want this to carry on into your marriage. x x
2007-03-12 03:22:01 · answer #1 · answered by picklexxx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say calmly and civily 'Darling, I think its wonderful that you and your ex can be such good freinds but as I'm feeling a bit under the weather still how about we get a take away and watch and good DVD tonight because I missed you so much when I was in hospital?'
If he really does intend to share the rest of his life with you he will be there like a shot. If the ring is just for show, let him go.
2007-03-10 02:58:13 · answer #2 · answered by Leapling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you and your fiance need to sit down and have a chat about your relationship.This time he is spending with his ex could well be innocent but as you say your just out of hospital and could do with your fiance spending quality time with you.You have every right to be jealous but just remember she is his ex for a reason and you deserve an explanation.........good luck and hope you get better soon.
2007-03-10 03:02:55 · answer #3 · answered by sarah y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him, tell him how its making you feel, maybe its just that he thinks you need to rest and he is giving you some space, you should always talk to each other, the basis of any long lasting relationship is honesty and trust, good luck
2007-03-10 02:58:47 · answer #4 · answered by bluebell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. Tell him how you feel, and let him tell you what's been up. When it comes to someone you love, the best thing to do is trust them until they prove they can't be, and, hopefully, they never will.
2007-03-10 03:20:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should just ask him whats goin' on not in a harshe tone or he could flip out! this happened to me once but with my best friend her ex best friend i asked her and i said
" i dont mean to be worried or anything but i am. so whats goin on with you and becky??" she told me and i felt so much better, its better than spended days wondering "what if?"
2007-03-10 03:00:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should talk 2 them its not right when ur jus come out of hospital ether. just ask them do they still love you another to spend a day with you. xxx
2007-03-10 02:57:56 · answer #7 · answered by i wnt a bf who dnt cheat or lie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether you have just come out of hospital or not, he should'nt be behaiving this way, dont let yourself be disrespected, i'd dump him.
2007-03-10 03:01:12 · answer #8 · answered by chickadee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to have a serious talk with him.
2007-03-10 02:57:49 · answer #9 · answered by richard_beckham2001 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sack him,do your self a favour, think i know how you feel though,its not nice.
2007-03-10 02:59:50 · answer #10 · answered by big burts bollox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋