I have been wondering is there sth like good vibes that we have - that make us completely compatible with some people and not with others. As I'm into numerology and astrology - i know that there are compatible & incompatible signs and numbers. But what do we do next- do we mix only with people we like or we have to mingle with all types in order to learn sth from all. And what if we are stuck in a situation where we don't like anybody around? What kind of sense can we make out of it ? Should we strive to escape or stay in order to learn. Will learning take place when we are miserable and would it be worthwhile ? I just can't figure out where the healthy borderline is.... Thank you for your thoughts on that ...
2007-03-10 02:50:49 · 6 answers · asked by Mimi 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
i have to love everyone no matter what they do in their life, it's all a learning process
2007-03-10 03:34:00 · answer #1 · answered by nobody 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honestly, I try to not be around people I don't like or who bring me down. I do think we can always learn from people whether or not we like them as people. If I find myself in a situation where I have to be around someone I don't like, I try to be polite but distance myself at the same time. I think life is too short to have to spend time with negative people or people who I have nothing in common with. When I meet someone that rubs me the wrong way, I try to understand what it is about them or myself that makes me feel that way. I try to see the good in everyone, but sometimes you have to really look hard!
2007-03-10 04:49:04 · answer #2 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't bother with people I dislike, and If I have to, I just try to be civil. Sometimes you can discover that you misjudged that person and that you do like them after all. First impressions are so often wrong.
2007-03-10 02:56:18 · answer #3 · answered by Julia Sugarbaker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I learn one thing, that when we dislike someone for some reasons, it could necessarily mean that you have the same traits as that person have.
Naturally you really don't like to see 'your own self' in someone, so you unconsciously despise that person for such an unknown explanation.
In my opinion, when I hate someone or something for some unknown reasons, it simply means that I have the same idiosyncrasies like that person or that thing have - in sort of speak. Because basically people, all kind of people, really don't like to see something that are same with theirselves in others. So since they really don't like nor enjoy to see the 'verity' about themselves in others, they dislike the others for having same features that unconsciously they really possess those traits deep inside theirselves.
Confusing? lol ... but that's the truth.
2007-03-10 03:08:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I avoid them.
2007-03-10 04:42:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore them.
2007-03-10 04:19:58 · answer #6 · answered by anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋