I have a fantasy of my wife making love with another guy. I am not very well endowed, so the thought of her being with a hot studly guy is a big turn on for me, should I tell her about it?
2007-03-10 02:29:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, that totally depends on your wife. Is she an open-minded, adventurous type? Would she be interested in something like this? You should know her well enough to gauge what kind of response you'd get before you even ask her.
Also, do you truly think this would be beneficial to your marriage? Have you thought about the possibility of jealousy? Plenty of people have fantasies, but in reality, jealousy is a factor they cannot overcome, so that fantasy can never become a reality.
2007-03-10 02:34:05 · answer #1 · answered by heather_chavous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure thing .. you ought to tell her about it. Open communication between you and your spouse should have no barriers, and especially when sex is the subject. You may find out that there are a few things in your relationship that are more important than your wife having sex with a big stud. Of course, you might also find out that she's been having the same kind of dreams and wants to try it out for real. But whatever, talk to here about it and about everything else that's on your mind... everything.! Talking openly doesn't mean the decision is already a done deal or that any decision has to be arrived at.... talking about this subject or anything else is just sharing yourself more completely and that's what a good marriage is all about.
When you bring this up to her... I'll bet you a buck she has a good laugh over it and then maybe you can, too. Relax pardner.
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2007-03-10 10:56:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fantasy is supposed to be make believe not real life all people have fantasies it's what makes the best stories and movies. Tell your wife but never act on it. It may turn out very bad and then you will always doubt your fantasies and ruin your imagination.
2007-03-10 14:15:07 · answer #3 · answered by Trisha 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fantasies are fine between consenting adults.
You should know how your wife would react.
Would you really want to carry this fantasy through?
I don't think so really. Especially when you are
bringing yourself down about your own manhood.
Perhaps it is you wishing you were this hot guy.
2007-03-10 10:41:07 · answer #4 · answered by Minxy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he** yes tell her i told my ex husband all my fantasy he was just a complete jack a** but even in my relationship now i express what i want and how and where you can also try using a dildo on her if the other guy thing is to much for her
2007-03-10 10:34:54 · answer #5 · answered by dianashay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your relationship can handle it, tell her.
But remember this...Fantasies are perfect, real-life isn't. This could go in a whole different direction if not handled with care.
Good luck.
2007-03-10 10:45:15 · answer #6 · answered by I'm daddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should. there's nothing wrong to get her mad. if you can tell it to her that you enjoy with your fantasy then she can make some fantasy story too, and for sure you most enjoyed.. that's when your in sex only. have fun
2007-03-10 11:04:51 · answer #7 · answered by car 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has a fantasy or two but this is your fantasy & I would keep it that way.
2007-03-10 10:34:41 · answer #8 · answered by Shortstuff13 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure....as long as you keep it just a fantasy......good luck
2007-03-10 10:44:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋