how do you know if your husband is cheating?

Answer 1

Sometimes you know sometimes you don't, but if you are suspecting that he is, more than likely he is.

Answer 2

Cos you're asking this question I would think
that you suspect him. Very hard to tell. He
might have gone cold on you - or being over
nice to you.
Check his moby and e-mails. He may delete
straight away though.
You could always get a private detective.
Or bluff your way through and tell him that you
have found out about his affair.
Or simply - Ask Him.
Hope all works well for you either way.

Answer 3

it's a feeling that you get deep within you. You will know. Late nights, loss of interest in you, falling asleep on the couch/floor, the way he talks to you, treats you......there are tons of things. Phone calls ....the list is very long. I would suggest that you try to find out first, have a friend follow him when he calls and says that he is working late....see where he goes (if he goes anywhere). I know I had a gut feeling that my guy was cheating on me and everytime I would ask, he would laugh in my face.....come to find out, he did and even gave her a kid. So, do your homework first before you talk to him about it.

Answer 4

Are you noticing him doing things like a male peacock? Is he grooming himself more often, does he wear cologne or aftershave more, and is he showing a more masculine, sexual demeanor? Is he changing his undershorts more often, staying out later than normal, and is his demeanor with you seem to be more pleasant than your used to? If there is a yes answer more often than not; you may have a valid reason to approach him with the question,"Honey, are you seeing someone on the side?" Watch his body language when he answers. Develop a list of reactions he has to different questions with a 'no' answer that you are certain of. Then out of the blue, spring the question on him and compare his reaction against those on your list.

Answer 5

I know this will sound crazy but you ask him. Talk to him. Not just about the cheating but about what's wrong in your relationship and why your worried that he is cheating. If all else fails hire one of those PI guys to take pics of him.

Answer 6

Does he:
Not come home at the times he used to?
Have the smell of perfume on his clothes?
Not show as much interest in making love anymore?
Seem distracted and not interested in things he used to?
Get phone calls at strange times and then leave the room to talk?
These and more can be signs he is cheating.
Sorry if it is happening, but it is best to know and sort it out.
Good luck!

Answer 7

if he's on his cellphone all the time even when he's at home. always saying he has business meetings, out of state. suddenly buys new clothes and spends more time in his grooming. goes home late at night with an alibi of working late with his boss or some deadlines to meet. check the phone bills for suspicious numbers that he often calls and check the bank account for any suspicious charges like hotels, restaurants.

Answer 8

this is a st****'s woman question
cant you really?or you wanted to threw away the positiveness of the doubt's into the suspicious area which you pref ere to live instead of facing the problem

Answer 9

If he is a man, he's probably cheating.
They don't all do it, but most do.

Answer 10

I dont know, as i dont have a husband.

Answer 11

Rule One, If in doubt, there is no doubt. You just know.