What to do when ur best m8 goes out with ya ex??HELP!?
OK i went out with this girl for a month 3 months ago and when we split we stayed close friends. But then my other best m8 who at the time had a girlfriend began to get closer to her and she started to havce feelings for him. So he split with his GF a week ago and has just asked her out and she said yes!!! ANd i have never been so angry in my life! i have to see them every day at school and it really really pains me to se my 2 best mates betray me like this....my parents say i should drop this...but how can i? I still have feelings for her, and i feel like my best mates have stabbed me in the back!! I keep having arguements with her about this, saying that its not fair to me and stuff..and for some reason i just CANT let her go, i think about her all the time, wever been over for 4 months...i just dont no what more i can do
2007-03-10 02:23:06 · 4 answers · asked by shishuzy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You only dated her for 3 months and that's not like a lifetime. You will probably have feelings for her for a long time if you didn't have a bad breakup. She's your ex-girlfriend so move on and get over it. Your parents are right this time.
2007-03-10 02:35:40 · answer #1 · answered by unicornfarie1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How is it betrayal?
It's not like you own her...
...I mean, if you did, you wouldn't have broken up with her.
It's not all about you and your feelings.
If you honestly think about it, you should take it as a compliment to you that she would go for your best mate, someone probably pretty similar to you.
I think, if I were you, I would try and figure out if your frustration and feelings for her are actually envy and competitiveness between mates and not actually wanting her. If that's the case, or you think it might be, go ask someone else out and see if you still feel the same after a few dates.
2007-03-10 10:41:51 · answer #2 · answered by Deathbunny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to let her go and maybe him too. It is a betrayal, but there might be something there that the two of you didn't have together. It sucks, but it'll get easier, just stop talking to them until you've had some time to work things out with yourself. She's not for you, and he never said anything to prepare you, so maybe he's not for you either. Leave them alone and concentrate on your healing.
2007-03-10 10:33:20 · answer #3 · answered by Trish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WUT THE HELL?
man, she is your EX, you're not with her anymore, LET HER GO!!
and ur best friend has the right to be with who he loves, so let him go with her and find another girl for you.
live and let them live too.
2007-03-10 11:04:13 · answer #4 · answered by mayee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋