im wiv this lad and we av sex and that we do different kinds of sex move but now i dont feel in the mood as much and it doing ma headin i want it but i dont av any energy only wen i start thinkin dirty to ma self but he not around wen im in the mood wat can i do .
2007-03-10 02:19:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It looks like the "honeymoon period" of your relationship with this guy has finished and the novelty of a fresh relationship worn off. Every relationship goes through this phase to some degree, and it is at this point you find out how much you really love someone.
You basically have to talk create a moment when you can open up to your b/f without getting too emotional - which basically means avoiding getting one of those horrible whiney voices we sometimes get when we try to talk about serious stuff!!
Keep the emotions to an absolute minimum. But keep nothing off limits. Talk about everything while you're both sitting down and opening up. Don't just discuss the s*x, talk about where you both see the relationship going and what you want from it. You might as well use the opportunity...
You might find out he's got the same kind of things going through his head. You'll probably learn much more about your own feelings for him if you see more clearly what he thinks deep down of you.
Amazing things start happening in relationships when you just start talking to each other.
I am actually going through a very similar period with my g/f and I am as confused as hell as to whether I want to spend the rest of my life with her or not. I don't think we are very compatible but I can't bring myself to open up to her yet. Maybe I should bloody well follow my own advice.!
2007-03-10 04:38:22 · answer #1 · answered by Stealthbong 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What about a serious, loving relationship where making love is not about positions and how often but about cementing your relationship and sharing something special together? Trust me, that is never boring.
Alternatively there are some manuals and books (Like The Joy of Sex, The Karma Sutra etc)that might give you ideas but with your spelling I'm not sure you'd be able to cope with all the words of more than two syllables in them.
2007-03-10 02:24:59 · answer #2 · answered by Leapling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do something really exciting like wen your eating together on a table get cheap plates and glasses set the table and the food wen your both sitting there wear a shirt that is so revealing bend over and kiss him the start rubbing his trouser apartment wen you feel like he's turned on push everything off the table don't be gentle really push it off then grab him and have wild rough sex on the table and then afterwards order a takeaway if ya still hungry
2007-03-10 11:56:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think Leapling has the right answer.
2007-03-10 03:30:44 · answer #4 · answered by Gary M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask that question...You need a new relationship....
2007-03-10 02:31:40 · answer #5 · answered by foxygirl29303 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him - see what he says!!
2007-03-10 02:23:36 · answer #6 · answered by Minxy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋