towards your wife or child because of how your wife loved your children, coddled them, gave them physical affection and did you feel left out? Like the way the mother of children is now towards kids she used to be with you and now she hardly touches or shows as much affection as she used before the kids?
2007-03-10 02:19:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Pretty in pink, you don't even have children yet, what hell are you talking about, you don't know!
2007-03-10 03:42:35 · update #1
Thats a good ?
Im married to a woman who has 2 children from other relationships and its hard. When you date a woman with kids you are dating the kids to. Kids need so much attention and love that some times I feel left out . I think thats normal, but that does'nt mean I have to like it. I think some times I resent my kids, but not in a way were I would change my life with my wife or my kids. When i got married I knew it was a package deal, so I have to live with my choices. I didnt make these kids but in my eyes they are mine and always will be.
Nothing is easy, but in the end I think men and woman feel
resentment, because theyer just isnt enough time. We all change as time goes on and if you dont change with time
you will fall behind and lose what you had in the beginning. I myself have learned ways to change. My wife and i still find ways arround our kids to make time for one another so that we dont forget why we feel in love to begine with.
2007-03-10 03:04:06 · answer #1 · answered by tommyhawk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not.
It never bothered me simply because we have the rest of our lives together, and what seems like minimal time until our children grow-up and don't want the coddling anymore. He shouldn't be so jealous and be more focused ond bonding with his children much like you are.
It is so important that Mother bond with their children as much as the Father.
However, what did upset me was when she started giving affection and attention that she used to give me to another man!!! Lol!
2007-03-10 02:28:11 · answer #2 · answered by I'm daddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I gave my children just as much attention as my wife did. In turn, that left a lot of time for "us".
A lot of women put way too much in this "mother" thing. Children practically grow by themselves. Why neglect your husband?
2007-03-10 02:49:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, no. I've never been jealous of any of my kids and the amount of affection she has given them.
We did have a bit of a tough time in our marriage after our second child was born. But, he didn't sleep through the night for thirteen months. We were both sleep deprived.
2007-03-10 02:28:29 · answer #4 · answered by penhead72 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would take a pretty immature and insecure man to feel that way. I was right beside my wife giving attention to my children.
2007-03-10 02:22:08 · answer #5 · answered by Cybeq 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My dad never jealous us with our mom and I won't have a man doing that **** either!
I am pregnant and my husband loves and helps with this all the time. he is there for me and sometimes pays more attention to the unborn baby than me.
2007-03-10 03:03:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any man that would feel that way is immature and insecure.If he is jealous of his own children then he is very pathetic and not worth your time....
2007-03-10 02:25:05 · answer #7 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋