Ok my I just moved to my new school (which is total hell) and for the first month everyone liked me. then in october everything started to bubble up. People thought i was "tattle tailing" when i didn't even see anything. so if anyone asked what happened i would say i didn't see it. I guess someone else told but of course im the new kid so blame her. And then this really nasty girl thinks she all that and starts to turn my friends against me. She prank phones my house all the time... My mom dealt with that cuz i wasn't home when it happened...And she calls me all the names in the book (swearing). Whenever a teacher finds out shes gets all kiss up with them and never gets in trouble. On the other hand i have grade eights picking on me from heck! Im drownding here and overwelmed... is telling an adult the only way cuz i hope not ... PLEASE HELP ME! P.S. I no I no my school is like a soap opra she did this and then he did that...
2007-03-10 02:11:17 · 4 answers · asked by indychick18 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I do not rly want to resort to telling
2007-03-10 02:17:25 · update #1
i'm sorry for what you are going through. kids can be mean and you just got caught up in a situation that you didn't cause. i feel for you. i understand your not wanting to involve an adult, but you need someone to stand by you and see that you are not continually being overpowered by bullies. right now, it seems like only verbal consultation but what if it gets physical, then you'll really be in trouble and overwhelmed. find a teacher that you trust, or a guidance counselor, tell them your situation, let them know that you don't want these kids approached about what they are doing, because this will put a bigger burden on your shoulders, but you feel you have to tell someone with authority at school so they are aware of this problem. if they could just watch for signs of a problem and try to rectify it at the time it happens, without your having to report or say anything against these girls, it would make a bad situation better. you do need help, and you want their help to be discreet, that these girls cannot learn that you have asked for help because then they would give you an even harder time. if you still feel too nervous about doing this, ask you mom to call the school and speak to someone. i hope this gives you something to think about. talk it over with your mom and see what she thinks. hang in there, you sound like a strong individual, and in time all this will seem like a distant memory, but while you are going through it, it feels horrible, especially when you know you didn't do anything wrong. good luck to you.
2007-03-10 03:08:11 · answer #1 · answered by try 2 help 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say, but tell the principal or office assistant. Tell your mom and dad. Get them to help you fight the teachers that do nothing to the people making fun of you and other stuff.
2007-03-10 10:16:08 · answer #2 · answered by smokeyprine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't go tattle tale. It means trouble. Tell your mom, again. Tell your mom. Blame it on her, and live happily ever after the end.
2007-03-10 10:58:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You simply need to go talk to your principal that is what they are there for.....
2007-03-10 10:29:30 · answer #4 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋