I think I am pregnant with a 17 y old mans baby. I am bleeding lighter than a normal period though. He has agreed to stick by my side but I dont have a job and dont know what to do!!! Help!!
2007-03-10 02:07:43 · 18 answers · asked by ~N3VA W0ULD HAV3 MAD3 IT~ 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Sounds scary, I know, but talk to your mom or dad, SOMEBODY who can help, maybe even a teacher or something. This is going to be hard so you want to have your family there to support you . They'll help you decide on all those questions and worries. Good luck.
2007-03-10 02:13:46 · answer #1 · answered by Trish 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, please get a pregnancy test- at a nearby pregnancy help clinic. If you are pregnant- you are both young- 17 is not a man yet. Adoption is a great option. Abortion not only takes the life of a child- but it can effect you physically and emotionally. Physical risks are torn uterus, infections, excessive bleeding and pain, higher risk of breast cancer and also your chances of having miscarriages later increase and also you may not be able to get pregnant after having an abortion. Most women/girls think that abortions are a quick fix for "the immmediate problem". That baby is the innocent part of this whole thing- and I do not want you hurt as all. God bless and I will be praying for you and your decision.
2007-03-10 05:20:19 · answer #2 · answered by AdoreHim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
17 year olds are young men, if even that. you are 14 and pregnant. i suggest you consider adoption or abortion. you just may regret the abortion but you are so young and have your whole life ahead of you. and from what i've seen about teenage pregnancies, the grandparents usually end up raising the child. and i'm sure this is an unplanned/unwanted pregnancy. why would you bring a child into this world likethat, if you do, there a millions of people looking for children to adopt. i suggest you go to your local free clinic and research adoption. this 17 year old may want to be by your side right now, but time will come when he changes his mind. i've seen it. and you don't have a job? come on, if this 17year old was a man, he wouldn't make you work, he would get a real job that pays good money to support you. good luck to you.
2007-03-10 02:15:05 · answer #3 · answered by pwrgrlmanda 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why are you with a 17 year old, especially if you 14. sweetheart, that is satutory rape!! does your mom know your with him? well if i were you i would start babysitting so that way you are prepared for what life has for you. but talk to your mom. if you are bleeding then most-likely you are not. but there is still a chance. so be careful. if i were you i would get on birth control and most defenitly use condoms. if you need some moral support email me. okay sweetie? and remember god is always there. (i am not some old lady, i am 19, so dont think i am trying to preach to you, i have just been there before, well not the age thing.but you know what i mean:))
2007-03-10 02:24:28 · answer #4 · answered by brown eyed beauty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i suggest taking a pregnancy test before you freak yourself out anymore.
#1. finding a job once you know you are pregnant is hard, because who wants to hire a pregnant teen who is just there until she has the baby? anyway, you are 14, and probably can't get working papers. i'm thinking that you should have thought about this before sleeping with a 17 yr old BOY. since you didn't, i suggest get through as much school as possible, then have the baby and give it up for adoption. that is the only way that you are going to be able to give that baby a great life. stop having unprotected sex, and learn your lesson.
2007-03-10 02:22:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to talk to some adults whom you can 'trust' to help you decide what you should do. If you don't think that you can 'trust' your parents, then I think that you should start with two different places, and go to BOTH of them ... Planned Parenthood, and the Roman Catholic Church (called 'Catholic' in the U.S.) ... Planned Parenthood may try to tell you that getting an abortion is the 'only' answer for someone as young as you are. The Catholics will tell you that it is 'a cardinal sin' (murder) to get an abortion, but they will also tell you 'where' you can go to get good medical care, and hopefully you and your 'male friend' can decide what you will do. PLEASE BE CAREFUL. You are 'only' 14 years old, and that is very, very young to take on all of the heavy responsibilities of 'motherhood' ... but that does NOT mean that you are 'incapable' of raising your child if that is what you decide to do. IT IS YOUR BODY and in the end you are the ONLY one to make the 'final decision' ... but you do need 'good counseling' and I think that while the two 'agencies' I am telling you to go to are 'on opposite ends' of the 'field', they are both the BEST agencies that you can go to in a situation like yours. Good luck, sweetheart. I'll be praying for you, whatever your final decision is.
2007-03-10 02:25:03 · answer #6 · answered by Kris L 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I babysat at ur age, and I still do, I'm 19 now. In your case you will not really want to babysit once u have a child, but he should have a job since he's 17, and as soon as you can get one, get one! There are actuallys ome out there for your age, I even got a little bit of money for events around my city. Look around I'm sure you can find some.
2007-03-10 02:12:13 · answer #7 · answered by Lorelei's Mommy ( & prego) 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i don't think of you're questioning with regard to the real implications of your determination! all your plans anticipate that somebody else is going to could desire to guard your toddler. once you're waiting for a toddler, you're growing to be to be help - yet you will possibly prefer to be waiting to assert i will look after this person on my own. for occasion, how might you pay for the daycare next on your mom's living house? do you be responsive to how high priced daycare is? and how are you able to're making determination bearing directly to your mom's spare room and your bf's nan's time? you will purely be having a toddler for egocentric reasons! and not questioning in any respect approximately how this person could be dealt with ...
2016-10-18 00:53:15 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well lol hes not a 17 y old "man" he's still a boy, but you should probably go to the doctor a.s.a.p. And believe me you will probably get alot of hate from others who think that getting pregnant young is a disgrace or just plain stupid but get used to it. Even though its 2007 you will still have ppl who just arent used to fact that times are changing:)
But you should get a job soon, go and get your work permit, just in case your bf does back out you will have a back up plan.
2007-03-10 02:12:05 · answer #9 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
A 17 year old isn't a "man". And if you are bleeding get it checked out, most people don't bleed when they are pregnant.
2007-03-10 02:10:51 · answer #10 · answered by Stuck in the middle of nowhere 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋