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Question

yesturday i was in gym and i was talking to this girl about relationships. and she asked me if I masturbate. i didn't know what to say but luckly it was time to go. If i get asked again what should i say and why would this girl want to know?

Answer 1

She is using the question for its shock value to see how you react. Don't let her intimidate you.

Answer 2

She's nosy. Just tell her you don't want to talk about private things with her Ask her how she would feel if you asked her such a personal question. Just because someone is rude enough to ask you an inappropriate question doesn't mean you have to answer.

It seems possible she is (rather awkwardly) trying to get you to talk about sexual things because she is interested in you sexually. Nothing wrong with telling her you're too young or not interested or whatever or just want to be friends.

Also nothing wrong with telling her "none of your business" if you don't want to be on a good friends basis with her. Real friends respect each other's privacy and personal space. What she asked was rude and inappropriate, and you don't owe her any kind of answer.

Answer 3

Be honest. Tell her yes or no. You don't need to get into detail. She might be breaking the ice, getting some tough topics out of the way, not for the info, but more for your reactions. Go with it man.

Answer 4

I'd say this was a come on, about as direct as a woman can get. Tell her "Sure I do. Don't you?" If she says "Yes," then you can say you'd like to go somewhere a little more private to talk about it. Talking about sex is foreplay.

Answer 5

That was a wierd question. However if she asks again just say: "Of course, doesn't everyone?".
Everyone does.

Answer 6

Ignore her she is trying to get to you.