Im a guy and a nasty rumor broke out bout me and now people in my class think im gay .......now my gay male classmate always says "hi" to me and is currently asking from my phone number. Im not gay and am sure of this but how do you make a gay guy classmate not like you ......Im sick and tired of gay guys liking me all the time ,its chasing away all the girls ....anywayz ,how do you make gay people stop liking you =|
2007-03-10 01:25:13 · 14 answers · asked by someone ? 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Hmmm, well. I'm a gay guy but I don't fall for str8 guys. I guess there are a few ways to go about it. I have two brothers that my gay friends ALWAYS hit on. They handle it very well. The first time a guy hits on them, they say in a very pleasant but neutral voice, "Thank you for the compliment."Then in a very quiet voice "But there is no way in helI. I'm strictly about the ladies.I trust this is the last time we'll have this conversation?" "Good."
Now inevitably, some dumb guy is either too stupid or drunk and tries again. This is where it gets funny. By Brother will pretend like he's had a change of heart. He'll pretend to flirt back, he'll laugh and make a joke about how he was curious...then right when the guy thinks he's getting somewhere, my Brother yells out "I TOLD HIM I'M STRAIGHT BUT HE'S TRYING TO HUMP MY LEG!."
Its a great moment in the party when that happens! I laugh every time, Hope that helps. If you're getting hit on so much its best to learn how to deal with this situation right now.
Remember tho, the kid who wants your number may just feel protective or he may think that you are one of those few straight guys that's actually not a bastard. He might just be looking for a valuable friend and gay guys can be pretty nasty if you make an enemy. Keep it in mind o.k.?
2007-03-10 02:02:15 · answer #1 · answered by erathossd 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋
well hmm im guessing ur not in uni by the sounds of things so ill give schooling advise not trying to beat him up as a certain individual has pointed out well the nice thing you could do well one of the easy things give him your phone number or msn if u love the block button and let him talk to you and explain that you dont like him and that you are not gay simple as that oh yeah and dont use the 4 deadly words ill be your friend) but then again it may have chased the girls befriend him and (u might think but the straight guys will hate me) well ill tell u this hunni if they spread that rumor they already dont like you but befriending him will get to
A: all the girls that hang around hims pants (of course the playing grounds the same but the ice is easier to crack)
B:he gets you to all those parties u never here about that tend to have 20 bi girls there
C: because he has more personality class intelligance (and hygene) then any of the jocks
2007-03-10 10:51:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't MAKE him not like you, but tell him you're not gay or not interested. As for all the other gay guys that seem to be infatuated with you, they're not chasing the girls away, the girls are staying away of their own volition.
But maybe you should look into getting over yourself.
2007-03-10 09:33:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
get a girl friend. or simply tell the gay guys im flattered but not interested. or maybe their gaydar is picking up residual vibes from you. give it a try, i heard gay guys give good head. not better than me. but i don't do that because im a lady.
2007-03-10 10:59:59 · answer #4 · answered by suzy moon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you have to say your not gay, and your not attracted at all to them, and you are not interested, and don't want to give them your phone number. Say, it was something someone made up, to upset you.
2007-03-10 09:30:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Too late! You are gay. Soon you'll be sewing curtains and learning how to cook.
2007-03-11 01:26:51 · answer #6 · answered by Mike G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him and tell him you are straight
and if he still does not leave you alone
find a girl and kiss her in the hall way at school
so every one can see you are not afraid to be you
and you are straight trust me once he sees you with her or every one tells him about it he will back off
2007-03-10 09:33:02 · answer #7 · answered by Zara3 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
1) Just be very upfront. "Thanks, but no thanks. There's a rumor going around, but I am not like that. "
2) NO ONE who looks like me had the kind of HOT BABES SURROUNDING HIM as much as I did.... girls like a challenge. Foster the rumor. My straight friends were always amazed at the minge being thrown my way.
2007-03-10 09:54:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
just be friends with them. most girls have at least one very close gay male friend, and if he likes you as a friend he'll refer her to you.
2007-03-10 09:40:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Are you kiding me???
Gay guys bring all the girls to the yard.
learn to use it. become friends with him.
just say hey, i like you, but i don't like you like that.
2007-03-10 09:34:15 · answer #10 · answered by chucknkeith1 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋