My Husband is addicted to computer City of Heroes/Villains?

Question

My husband is severely addicted to COH/COV. He comes home and that is the first thing that he does. We have a five year old and I am 6.5 months pregnant. We have been married since October 2006. I am not the biological mother of our son so I never experience what he will be like when the baby is born, however I have spoke to his mother and his ex and they have stated that all he does is ignore the situation and plays his game. I have tried to play the game with him, he claimed it would make us closer, well I cannot neglect our five year old, he does need to bathed and feed so I lost interest in the game. He pays for my account to be open and he spends all night running both accounts. He spends all the extra money that we have on upgrading his dang computer. His father said it best last night. He told him that one day he is going to come home and I am going to be gone and there will be a note on his computer telling him I left. Can someone help me I am ready to leave him.

Answer 1

Let the kid play his game mother. Joules over a stooped game. Good lord woman!!

Answer 2

My daughter gave her husband a choice get help for addictions to some army game or she is out of the marriage. he said he wouldnt change. He also had a daughter from his first marriage which they had every other week. Her soon to be ex would come home and go right to the computer. He would spend all the money on computer gadgets, and he plays music and also on musical equipment. he wasnt much of a husband or father. Sadly addicted and still is and she is in the process of a divorce. And I am 100% behind her. If he wont change get out you are wasting your life on a man who is addicted like a child and is not a father or husband or a decent human being. My daughter met a real man and she is in love and I am so happy. Get out while you are young.

Answer 3

its an addiction, he needs an intervention... or maybe the computer needs taken out