and even go steps further by engaging in sex.
2007-03-10 00:38:33 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
tks. i raise this silly question because i have a lady friend who get involved in a married man who didn't apparently tell her so. and she love him and have sex with him.
I CANNOT UNDERSTAND HOW ON EARTH A MARRIED MAN CAN HAVE SEX WITH ANOTHER WOMAN BESIDE HIS WIFE.
2007-03-10 01:27:27 · update #1
millions of people do it, whether it is right or wrong..
2007-03-10 00:51:17 · answer #1 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time when people want answers to morally wrong questions it is because they have a small inkling that what they want to do IS morally wrong! The wedding vows are between a husband and wife not anyone else. If you are the culprit, put the shoe on the other foot how would you feel? This will open the door for so much more especially divorce! My suggestions if you have not already tried it marriage counseling and talking to your wife about any sexual concerns you may have. Try to engage in new sexual activity role playing is always fun. WHAT EVER YOU DO NOT SEEK REFUGE ON-LINE OR ANYWHERE ELSE!
2007-03-10 00:50:09 · answer #2 · answered by tucutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that I have to answer you on this one this is a question you should be asking yourself. You see if a man has to do this then he isn't happy in his relationship or something is missing from the marriage. The onky way a man would be on the outside is if he is wild or he is missing something in his relationship. Check up on your marriage if this is happenign to you and try changing things but don't encourage this because this could only lead to one thing which is distruction for your relationship.
You might think that it is a way to be giving him space and freedom and if he feels like this then something is wrong. He is also wrong to be bringing someone else into your relationship because it would be hurting three people. It is something very selfish and hurtful to do to someone or to the person he is in a relationship with.
Avoide having this happen because it would only result in pain and get some professional help if it is that this couple wants to survive they have to work on it. Just as I was faced with it marriage has bumps every now and again its just how you treat it.
2007-03-10 01:01:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it not right. If you are married your supose to be honest to your wife. By going looking fr a one night stand, that shows that you obviously dont love your wife. By engaging in s** is not fair to your wife because she thinks you love her and she'll do anything for you. If i was you I would talk to her about this and then maybe go see a marriage counciler if you want to save the realtionship. But if you dont care then you need to tell her, and maybe take a break from each other and see other people. Well i hoped i helped and i hope you make the right decison. Godd luck
2007-03-10 00:44:04 · answer #4 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask that?Of course it is NOT right.I guess if its ok for his wife to go online to look for boyfriends and have sex with them.Why would you do such a thing?You shouldnt have gotten married if you were going to do this.Not only will you destroy your marriage, you may end up with some nutcase who wants to sacrafice you to satan.It happens you go to see soemone you disappear they say you never showed up.You may get a call from a young girl or boy saying "hi im your son or daughter".You may hear a knock on the door open it up just to be shot by a jealous b/f or husband.You may bring aids home to your wife.Think with the head on your shoulders, not the other one sonny.
2007-03-10 00:46:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the answer to this, of course not.
Marriage is based on love and respect. Looking outside your marriage for any reason is wrong and never solves anything.
If a married man is going on line for a gf or anything else, he's being selfish and immature. He neither loves nor respects his wife.
2007-03-10 01:01:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is an interesting question.I'd say your not happily married?Divorce comes first,i think thats important.Alot of people are finding love online or different ways.Not everyone can go to a bar or club to meet a nice women from time to time,everyone has different personalites and on different schedules.I think you should get divorced first and not start up confusion.
2007-03-10 00:42:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No this is not right at all and should not be happening. I hopw his wife finds out .... This is adultery and cheating and being unfaithful. If he cannot stay true to his wife at least let the poor woman go before looking elsewhere.
2007-03-10 00:44:44 · answer #8 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not right that he does that he has a wife now he should not be fooling around trying to look for a gf or even for sex.
2007-03-10 01:12:56 · answer #9 · answered by mommyandbaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know it isn't. Whoever this man is, he needs to grow up and tell his wife how he feels. Give her time to understand she married a loser and start a new life for herself.
2007-03-10 00:45:03 · answer #10 · answered by Taylor29 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is cheating, even if they did not engage in sexual acts in person.
Your friend should free herself now of someone who didn't have the decency to tell her he was married in the first place.
2007-03-10 01:52:48 · answer #11 · answered by MsTrust 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋