If you are angry...do you say things that you don't mean?

Question

Or you mean those words but never had the guts to tell to the person?

Answer 1

Speak when you are angry and you'll make the greatest speech you'll ever regret. The biggest part of our anger has to do with not others but but our own hurts overflowing onto others. We're more frustrated than angry because we're pretty-much demanding a certain reaction or response. How come we feel slighted when someone doesn't respond the way we think they should when we can't even respond a lot of the time the way we want to? Often we're not really thinking right and our angry remarks come from a desperation.

Answer 2

Actually depends on the intensity of the anger....mostly I have seen people utter the things that they have in the heart in the fit of rage and then they repent it cause what they would have said did hurt the other person and maybe just to mend a bit they said that they did not mean it.

My case when i am angry I don't say something wrong or things that I may have to repent later cause I don't keep any bad feelings about others in my heart.

Answer 3

I think we say a lot of things in anger to hurt the other person or try to get to them. Words can hurt a person as much as a physical blow sometimes. I think it depends on the situation and what the arguement is about. Sometimes, we say things we have been holding inside for a long time and sometimes it's just to get that person at the moment.

Answer 4

BOTH. But in either case, we must weigh our words carefully, no matter how upset we are. Regarding this matter, two sayings come to mind that my grandmother and mother always told be as I was growing up. One is that we should always guard the "gates" to our mouths. The other is that "words once spoken, can never be taken back". I have come to know the absolute truth of both. Unfortunately, I've learned the hard way.

Answer 5

Anger is one of the baser instincts which often makes ur tongue swagger unnecessarily resulting in harsh words which u tend to regret when better sense prevails. The trick is to either walk out of such situations or else to count till 100, before saying a word.

Answer 6

I used to say a lot of things in anger that I later regretted. But now I have learned to keep my big mouth shut. Once spoken they can never be taken back , and I have a husband with a memory like an elephant.

Answer 7

Sometimes I say things I don't mean.
However, once spoken, words cannot be unspoken and I try to be careful with my words.

Answer 8

I don't ever mean them in anger. I am a pretty bold person and will tell someone what I think about them.

Answer 9

Sometimes when I am angry, I might say things I didn't mean to SAY. But I do mean, think or believe them....

Answer 10

With your adrenaline pumping, you're quite camp able of saying something you really don't mean! Also, if people are watching you, you could just blurt something out either extremely conscience or not conscience at all of those listening!