there is this guy at church same age as i am, i kinda like him but he does not know this.
We work on the same bus route and all.... But here is the question
How can i show him that i like him without telling him?
I need help! ! ! ! ! !
2007-03-08 23:25:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Give space to God to breathe...Submit your desire and liking for this guy in prayers. Let God moves ...In His time, if this guy is God's will for you, he'll approach you w/o you having to show him that you like him. Showing a person that you like them w/o telling them usually brings uncertainty and instability to any kinda relationship coz your actions may mean nothing to other person if they aren't interested. Play safe, let the guy shows interest in you first before you do anything.
2007-03-08 23:43:49 · answer #1 · answered by superb2dmax 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
verbal as well as non verbal communication
sit close on the bus route
when you sit near him cross your legs toward him
laugh and show interest in what he has to say
play with your hair
these are little flirty non verbal cues that draw attention from another
give him chance to warm up to you
also pay attention to the signals that he is sending
ask him questions if you chat at all
what he did on weekend etc?
is he going to the prom?
he might say hung out with friends
went to cinema with my girlfriend etc
maybe there is a movie that you both want to see
if he say oh yeah i have not seen 300 yet, you could say neither have I would love to see it etc....
see how he responds.
good luck
2007-03-16 17:20:26 · answer #2 · answered by makeda m 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just talk more to him! Dont be shy, and be his friend first. Get to know him as a friend before you get into the "dating" scene. He may or may not feel the same way, so dont get your hopes up to high !
2007-03-09 07:28:46 · answer #3 · answered by Encouragement 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all you seem like a good Christian woman so first of all pray about it then please don't flirt in church! It's stupid and tacky. Ask him out and make your intentions with him clear. Maybe a coffee date or something a little more fun.
2007-03-16 22:14:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that's kind of hard to do you're going to have to tell him one way or another. Have one of your friends tell him for you but tell them to say something like"Oh my friend likes you but she doesn't know if you like her back. But don't tell her I told you" or write him a note and see how he acts after that but make sure to let him know that if he doesn't lik you that you still want to be friends and you don't want it to be all akward and that's why you were nervous to tell him
2007-03-15 18:50:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the hell does that have to do with being a christian, so why don't ya take off all your clothes, wrap yourself in a big ribbon with a bow, and go knock on his door, if he's not dead he will get the message!
2007-03-09 07:42:41 · answer #6 · answered by Billie R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just make eye contact and smile. Leave the approaching up to him.
2007-03-09 07:29:39 · answer #7 · answered by cupcake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're a religious person, you should understand that HONESTY is the best way. Just tell. HE will appreciate it.
2007-03-09 07:43:40 · answer #8 · answered by Karin ;) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one way you could is by the way you act around him or just continually stare at him
2007-03-15 22:35:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirt with him alot and hug him if he likes you he will like it
2007-03-16 20:45:32 · answer #10 · answered by jonny boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋