2007-03-08 22:57:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
For the sake of the child only, I am always cordial but will never be friends. I hate the ***** and all she tried to do to ruin me but in the end it only ruined her.
2007-03-09 00:02:31 · answer #1 · answered by Cdn_Superdave 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happened in our family. She divorced my brother, and now is remarried. They are friends...but she calls the shots and still lets him know who's boss.
All the situations I see like this, someone is using the other for something when they are "friends"
Cordial for functions with the children would be as far as it should go.
Consider the new person in your life too, (if there is one) how uncomfortable they must feel. I say, stay in your own corner, it will mess up your life ahead.
After a divorce things do settle down and you may get to the point of civil...
An ex is an ex for a reason!
2007-03-08 23:21:33 · answer #2 · answered by turtle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, It took a some time, effort and didn't give up. We have been divorced now for about 5 yrs. We talk every now in then during the years, We are know talking almost daily, he has remarried, not me, we have no children together and where married for 8 yrs. we are able to laugh about it all now and shared our lessons and found understanding about how, we should have or could have done and been better, We are better friends now and empower, encourage one another in our lives. We know that we loved each other and always will.
2007-03-09 00:27:32 · answer #3 · answered by livelovelaugh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I was able to remain friends with my ex after the breakup.
Because of that we were able to work out our differences and
will be remarried in July of this year.
2007-03-09 00:05:48 · answer #4 · answered by Williamstown 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok I even have spoken approximately my stories with one among my ex's who I set him up together with his spouse (they are nonetheless married). The wreck up replaced into very very nasty to assert the least, and (we've been each and each others firsts additionally), an I vowed by no potential to speak to him back ever. I even needed he replaced into ineffective, forged a spell on him that he might by no potential be responsive to authentic happiness, and purely hated him with a keenness (he cheated on me with my terrific pal on the time). yet after approximately 6 months, my hatred replaced into lengthy previous for him, I even chanced on myself forgiving him, and that i called him an we spoke, an we the two admitted to lacking the friendship we had earlier we dated. An it took us some 3 hundred and sixty 5 days after our wreck as much as grow to be authentic acquaintances back, yet we are so close. he's somewhat like the large brother I by no potential had, and his spouse tries to set me up with a number of her stunning acquaintances however the timing is often off. it could ensue in spite of if it takes time and in case you the two are keen to go away the previous interior the previous, flow on and artwork on your friendship.
2016-10-17 22:49:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but it never quite works out. Once you have history with someone, it makes it difficult to truly be friends without feeling something more.
2007-03-08 23:45:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes with my first ex husband, but only when he admitted his wrong, and placed the blame where it belonged. but if there are still unresolved hurts and pain u can't do it and feel good about it.
2007-03-08 23:10:03 · answer #7 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, we make better friends than we do spouses.
2007-03-08 23:13:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, my one nasty breakup never forgave me.
2007-03-08 23:47:31 · answer #9 · answered by maylene1852 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2007-03-08 23:55:57 · answer #10 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋