2007-03-08 22:53:14 · 11 answers · asked by D.star s 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I used to be really shy of boys when I was young, its agony isnt it..I really feel for you.
Just try and be yourself, ask them questions, get them to talk about themselves and let the conversation go where it will.
They may be just as shy.
2007-03-08 22:58:29 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think some boys see girls as different to themselves and some sort of other being, but really, we are all the same. Remember that girls fart and go to the toilet the same as blokes, some shout at the telly during football matches and some will be just as shy as you. Speak to girls as you would speak to your mates. Just chill and don't worry if you occasionally say silly things, don't we all!!
2007-03-09 07:45:32 · answer #2 · answered by Princess Paradox 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the enviroment you are in is in the pub or a everyday surrounding?
If its in the pub surely a few drinks may give you some kinda of confidence.
In your situation its easy for a member of the opposite sex to come over and say hi. Then under them circustances it will boost your confidence.
2007-03-09 08:01:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A great way to deal with any shyness is to go to drama classes. There are some good studios around that do a couple of hours in the evenings
2007-03-09 07:22:39 · answer #4 · answered by Angelfish 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,Try bulding your confidents first by going to clubs and things and talking to people then try talk to girls and see what happens.Just at first take it easy just talk about simple things such as school,hobbies,what you have been doing over the weekend,fav foods and etc.Then go and talk about other things llike your personalitily and stuff like that
good luck and i hope this helps xx
2007-03-09 13:00:52 · answer #5 · answered by Iluvcharmedcauseitisthebest 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds soooo cliche and I'm literally cringing as I'm typing this but just be yourself!! I was the quiet type and once I just got out there and started talking to people and letting them get to know me and it was so much easier. Next time you want to talk to a girl just go and talk to her without even thinking about it. You dont want to be regretting it!
Good Luck!
2007-03-09 07:16:11 · answer #6 · answered by Girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are a pious soul. Greetings. Be shy of all girls except the girl who is your wife. Continue to be shy. It is a blessing.
2007-03-09 07:06:02 · answer #7 · answered by hasanmuizudin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to them and try to get to know them before you try chatting them up. The worst possible thing you can do is try a chat-up line.
2007-03-09 06:59:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
have confidence, approach them have a conversation whit them, let them speak the more you know about them the easier it will be for you to over come your shyness,
less talk! listen, and make sure to pay attention when they are talking..
2007-03-09 07:13:40 · answer #9 · answered by jamall69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
something that might help you
never make plans about what you r going to say to a girl...
cause when you get close to her you will get nervous and it will be a total disaster.
just go and try to know more about her...
2007-03-09 07:08:21 · answer #10 · answered by Silas - Ridendo Castigat Mores 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋