my gf finished with me on monday, she said she only wants to be friends. I met my gf at work, outside work we was perfect but wen it got to work days, we argued, cos ofbher work mates spreading stuff about me and making me paranoid by giving me dirty lucks. so it was partly my fault why she finished' lastnite I rung 2 tell her not ring me on my other fone, cos I lost it. she answered and said she wed ring me bk in a bit cos she busy, she sounded down. so she rung hour later so I asked if sh was ok, shevstarted shouting and stressing at me so I put fone down on her. she then txt me twice and rung me 8 times. the txts asking what's up wi me and why I put fone down. shal I txt her or shal I let her suffer bit l0nger? I want her bk cos I like her. previusly I used to txt and ring her loads. ifbshe wants to be friends why wud she bother 8times to ring me? I never ansWered what do I do? she also wrote in one of the txts she will seebme at work 2day but am not going in today plz help how can I get her back? she made it clear she wants friendship so what can I do? I feel she likes me? p
z help I,like her to bits
2007-03-08
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If u want her don't mess with her.
U will lose her again!!!!!
Don't act like a child!!!!!
2007-03-08 22:47:34
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answered by iona 3
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lets keep it simple yes she likes you but she needs you to back off a bit limit your calls to her.
your making your self look bad and really needy which is not a good quality to have in a guy.
be a friend for a bit clear the tention between you coz it sounds like you could cut it with a knife so calm down let her know that when and if she would like to talk to you you your there to lissen.
also let her know that you still care be gental she sounds like she's a little emotional right now and needs her Friends more then a relationship so be a Friend talk it out with her and stay calm you will know when she's ready to move on back to u
2007-03-09 06:51:54
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answered by kaceek21 2
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ok....clearly, she hasnt gotten over you and she doesnt know what she wants. you could give her a second chance, but i must say, she is not treating you right! why dont you ask her what she wants, wants from you and from others. she doesnt know what to talk about so she comes up with excuses and puts on a fit for practically no reason, do you see yourself with a person like that in the future???
whatever it may be, your decision will affect your future, be sure that you still want her than go ahead and tell her.
but, no matter what, you must always be a good friend! from her behaviour, she somehow is somehow in need of you!
2007-03-09 06:52:57
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answered by *grid_iron gurl* 2
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get on the phone .. a womans mind id like an agal bloom , if you dont get in there quick , it will be poisened , and forced out.. also manipluation never works , it breed more , and then the relationship just ends up where you both just try and manipulate each other , relising that you are making your real feelings not a factor anymore , once that happens .. it is all finished
2007-03-09 06:50:25
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answered by DSV 6
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she sounds a bit weird 2 b honest, y did she shout at u?
all u can really do is ask her where u stand, ask her if she doesnt wanna be wi u, y seh ringin u all the time? jst *** out an say it an if she says no leave her alone, u cnt make her like u.
sometimes girls like 2 play games, tell their partner they wanna break up wen they really dnt wanna, 2 c if they fight 4 them. then wen they dnt beg them not 2 go they freak out n start shoutin!
2007-03-09 06:50:13
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answered by debs 2
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It's all too complicated. Find someone else before she does your head in.
2007-03-09 08:13:15
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answered by Afi 7
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Tell her how you feel and write her a text that will say how you feel about this!
2007-03-09 06:49:14
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answered by chanel j 1
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1.talk to her softly
2007-03-09 06:49:31
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answered by prabhakar_ace 5
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Yes you call her back!
Maybe she wants you back :)
2007-03-09 06:49:18
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answered by Anonymous
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ok either youre your drunk or mentally retarded whats with the spelling
2007-03-09 06:47:34
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answered by cod 2
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