2007-03-08 22:42:20 · 26 answers · asked by momo3031 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hubby has been away for 7 months op tour in iraq
2007-03-08 22:50:58 · update #1
Steak and sexy underware?
2007-03-08 22:51:34 · answer #1 · answered by Sandie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Fix a nice dinner at home set there and talk for a while about thing that he went thu and also talk about things you went thu . No need to jump right into bed its been 7 months he can wait another few hrs. Theres alot of things on both your minds and they need to be talked about . You need to get to know each other again alot has changed for him and you. OR you can hit the bed and talk about things later. But what ever you decide you will need to talk about things . I know I went thu this twice but it was more than 7 months each time .
2007-03-09 00:42:36 · answer #2 · answered by Kenneth H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A clean quiet house with a nice warm dinner ready for him and an open licence to talk about whatever he wants for a while or just to be peaceful with you.
He'll give you a sign if he's up for some cuddling and sex so make sure you have it ready but don't expect it from him, its a long flight.
2007-03-08 22:56:01 · answer #3 · answered by Mangomum 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Let him unwind first.People who havent been to a war zone dont understand the stress that it causes.He will have seen things he cant describe,and being back in reality is difficult.Be patient with him,yes he'll be glad to see you and his family and hopefully he'll be ok,but try to understand if he wants to be on his own for a while.It took me 2 months to get my head round being in a safe environment,no car bombers,suicide attackers or snipers....
Being able to walk along the street without having to look over your shoulder,not worrying about speeding cars....
Its different for everyone whose been there,some get o with it,some cant forget what they've seen..Im better now...
Be understanding of what hes been through.....
Good luck and lets hope he doesnt have to go back to that awful hell hole....
2007-03-09 00:16:07 · answer #4 · answered by freddy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Show up at the airport wearing a trench coat and heels, and not much underneath. He's waited 7 months to see you too! And PLEASE let him know America is grateful for what he's just been through!
2007-03-09 00:15:16 · answer #5 · answered by weatherization guy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
B**w job! Lol!
Vulgar i know! Sorry!
Come on its your husband! A hug, a kiss, a "god i missed you blah blah blah" Out for a slap up meal etc!
That was no help at all im sorry! I'm just trying to get some points from Yahoo! Lol!
2007-03-08 22:47:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
just relax and give him room he may not want you clinging to him all the time when my hubby used to come home from overseas duty he always needed space after a few days oh and plenty of s** and time to catch up with his other family and friends its very hard to share him when you want him all to yourself...
2007-03-09 02:00:31 · answer #7 · answered by dottydog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With a big smile on both sets of lips and don't forget to shave
the second ones.
2007-03-09 00:03:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
back from military deployment? have a wonderful dinner, let him wind down, buy some new lingerie;
back from being in prision??? make sure 911 is programmed in your speed dial
back from having a 7 month affair???? buy condoms....
2007-03-08 22:46:59 · answer #9 · answered by abc 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hug, then eat together somewhere nice. Tie him to chair at home. give him a lap dance he'll never forget... and then you know the rest....
2007-03-08 23:25:38 · answer #10 · answered by Marv 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tie a big Ribbon around yourself and let him take it off.
2007-03-09 00:08:50 · answer #11 · answered by Williamstown 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋