2007-03-08 22:42:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You should only marry for love...true love. Not for any other reason. You shouldn't be confused about the person you are going to marry...it should be the clearest thing in your mind. I suggest you say nooooooo!
2007-03-08 22:45:38 · answer #1 · answered by bundy_bee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If you are confused it is not time to get married. You need to talk to this person and tell them how you feel. This may be a very difficult thing to do but it is the right thing to do for both yourself and your best friend. What has your relationship been like up to this point? What would warrant him asking you to do this, you must have some relationship. If you are hesitant at all, the answer is a flat out NOT YET.
2007-03-09 06:46:33 · answer #2 · answered by Jeremiah M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how you feel about him.. I know it sounds like an obvious thing to say.. but if he's been "just friends" and this is out of the blue then its going to take serious consideration.. Do you love him? Does he love you or is this impulsive. If you haven't been officially dating then start there first. However, if its been "a relationship" for a while then maybe you've met the person you want to spend the rest of your life with. Weigh it all up and hopefully you'll know for sure. Good luck :)
2007-03-09 06:47:18 · answer #3 · answered by Nick C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are so many variables I cannot even begin to answer.
Think about what it means for you. DO NOT WORRY ABOUT HIS FEELINGS. Those can heal with time, but if you commit to something out of a misconstrued notion, you will be in over your head. Take some time, and reflect, SERIOUSLY.
You must be really awesome for your best friend to want to marry you. I can't stand some of the things my female friends do.
2007-03-09 06:49:20 · answer #4 · answered by Heero Yui 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love him? Best friends is a good thing. Look like it as a puzzle...all the pieces fit...which sounds great...but you have to be "in love" with him too. The kind of love that that makes your heart skip a beat.
If you feel he is your ultimate best friend, it doesn't sound like the spark has gone off because you are confused.
Even when there is love chemistry, marriage is a big step and everyone wonders, but deep down inside your gut lets you know.
Hang on to your answer...see if you "love him" or truly are "in love with him"
2007-03-09 06:56:17 · answer #5 · answered by turtle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he serious?
I think it's good, your best friend, your love,
your husband. there's no other better.
If he's your best friend it means you know each
other better.by now.
I think that's a good love story, if you end up marrying him
Remember when someone marries the love of their lives,
and when the relationship goes well they call each other friends,
Best of the best for you. . .
.
2007-03-09 06:52:27 · answer #6 · answered by JUSS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Figure out ur feelings for him. Only u an answer that question.
If u love him, care for him, are best of friends with him, he can be a good husband too!
Your husband should be ur best frd but ur best frd might not be ur husband, if u know what i mean:)
2007-03-09 06:49:45 · answer #7 · answered by saltnsaffron 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best friend in the world won't marry me so i say go for it.
2007-03-09 06:45:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its great that he is your best friend you need that in a marriage but you should ask your self if you have any romantic feelings for him. Also try dating him to see what its like first.
2007-03-09 06:46:23 · answer #9 · answered by Amanda W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. if u love him marry him
2007-03-09 06:51:31 · answer #10 · answered by prabhakar_ace 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋