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i have so many people counting on me and yet i failed. I'm feeling lost...dont know what to do....I tried so hard, and now i dont know what else to do.I'm too tired to try again, what else can be done if the best effort failed? I had a dream, i had a life, now there's nothing left. All gone.bye2 dream...bye2 my social life. some poeple might think that failing exam is not the end of the world...yes not for them. the thing is I couldnt afford a failure. $2500 worth of failure. I had tried my best...i did......

2007-03-08 22:19:30 · 8 answers · asked by PePe_Lepew 1 in Social Science Psychology

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Everyone experiences failure from time to time. The key is to continue trying. You must continue to live and thrive, in order to experience any kind of success. You may need to take a little break, but don't completely give up. You will succeed.Failure does not mean that you are worthless. Failure is a part of life. I believe it helps us to learn and grow,so that we can succeed in other ways of life. I understand your frustration,but don't give up. It WILL get better. Keep your chin up. Good luck. :)

2007-03-08 22:33:55 · answer #1 · answered by LeeAnna32 3 · 1 0

No, you're life is not a wreck. How could it be when you've done your best (like you said)? There aren't any regrets in that. There's more to it than just passing "the" exam. There are always second chances. Look at yourself: breathing, still alive; it means you still have the capacity to do something worthwhile. Life would be a wreck once you've stopped trying... We all have our purposes in life, you passing the exam now would probably not lead you into fulfilling it. Everything happens for a reason. brooding on it would only prove yourself a real failure. Stand up from the fall and move on. It's not what the issues of life make of you, it's how you deal with them; that's where happiness and contentment lies; that's success.

P.S.: If your friends ARE real friends, they'd still be whether or not you passed.

2007-03-08 22:47:06 · answer #2 · answered by InfoDeficient=c 2 · 0 0

One should not get dis-heartened by such small things.God has given you this life along with beautiful body and emotional mind to help him in performing the task of helping everybody in this world. Please do think about those people who can not even see this beautiful world or do not have legs/foot to walk or do not have hands to take food to their mouth, even than all such people are working for the betterment of the mankind. Then, how can you think that now there is nothing left. Please, be bold and face each and every challenge in life with full force. You will definitely a successful man .

2007-03-08 22:52:57 · answer #3 · answered by sb 7 · 0 0

i think you've got overstrained yourself mentally..agree with other people's opinion-you should really take a break there's nothing you can do about it now without getting yourself into deep depression (trust me i know).dont consider yourself a failure think its just a short downfall in your life that just doesnt mean a lot (try not to give it prominence though its important to you)you could retake exams after a while and you should do it so much better if tried not to stress a lot..just try think positive or hang on to smth that's important to you at this moment

2007-03-09 00:15:40 · answer #4 · answered by Jule. 3 · 0 0

I too have many people counting on me...and it gives me unbearable pressures....I can understand your feelings, every time I failed my exam, I wanna jump off the bridge to get away from this mess......I can't see hope........I feel that I live for other people, not me.

What you need to do is not to tell other people about your grades, it only increase your pressure......just wait for a week, all of these will go away, trust me, time can cure wound

2007-03-08 22:48:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I failed my highschool and started to work a computer progrmming job. I thought I could never pass education but I was considered smart. 6 years later I wrote my GED test and passed it in one attempt and several other tests and I am in college.

You need a break. Thats all

2007-03-08 22:26:03 · answer #6 · answered by Xtrax 4 · 1 0

Your SO right,,,,,

I feel your pain.

I've got the Blues,, yet I wanna Rock

And here I am answering a non-question

2007-03-08 22:28:21 · answer #7 · answered by pompanopete0 4 · 0 0

protip: It happens

quit crying and don't make things more complicated than they are.

2007-03-08 22:23:20 · answer #8 · answered by n01_special05 2 · 0 0

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