I'm a guy and I have a female friend who I hangout with all the time. We hang out in class and then text and talk till dawn every single day. The problem is that she flirts beyond the boundaries of friend. I really like her and she says she likes me too but would rather we take baby steps..towards what I don't know. Yet she doesn't behave this openly flirtatious towards anyone else. I've been very hurt last time I opened up too much to a person..
I sent her a text yesterday that we should stop talking to each other for a while because I was getting more connected to her than she to me. She replied back with "what's wrong with that?" Anyway, she thinks I'm hurting her by not talking.. I'm confused.
2007-03-08 22:13:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Even married men and women flirt. It's harmless fun, and a way of knowing that people of the other sex still fancy you.
You describe a friendship. If this is what it is, then forget it - do some flirting yourself!
If it is serious, then tell her she is overdoing the flirtling thing a bit and it upsets you.
(Watch what happens when you walk into a bar or club with a girl. Lots of other girls will flirt with you (get to know the signs!) because they know someone else fancies you and you are acceptable. If you walk in alone, this doesn't happen).
Just accept the flirting as innocent fun, or if it hurts you and yet she still continues after you have mentioned it to her, then you know what the answer is.......
2007-03-08 22:33:53 · answer #1 · answered by Bunts 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well you kind of threw the babysteps out by hanging out with her so much and texting/talking so much everyday. You don't act that way with any guy friends I bet. So you really have a relationship without the kissing, cuddling, or sex. Just go for it. Having such a close female friend is going to make it hard for a relationship with another woman and women are territorial a lot even if they're not dating you.
2007-03-09 06:19:49 · answer #2 · answered by massure4hire 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she just thinks ur not in to her since u told her that. cuz u huv to remember girls are sensitive. expecially if a boy does dat. so i'd say tell her dat ur hurt from ur last relationship and ur not ready to huv another gf. Also tell her that ur not trying to hurt her that u just want to be friends. so i wish u good luck! = )
2007-03-09 06:19:31 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course your hurting her!
Please dont let her flirtyness ruin your friendship
Just make sure she knows that she is your FRIEND and nothing more.
but this girl sounds nice. maybe you should give her a try?
2007-03-09 06:37:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
for about $10 you can get a pay-by-the-hour room at your nearest motel. take her there for steamy, passionate sex. do it right now.
2007-03-09 07:20:24 · answer #5 · answered by Name not provided 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its another guy then punch him in the face and kick him while he is on the ground. :)
2007-03-09 06:28:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋