Why do people have to always keep things within themselves without expressing it especially when it comes to friendship, love and other relationships where expression and understanding is so important...???
2007-03-08 21:59:27 · 34 answers · asked by venkii (eco_frend) 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
WEAK TO EXPRESS THEIR FEELINGS TO OTHERS. MAN HAS LOTS OF WEAKNESS. SOME ARE WEAK IN THIS FIELD.
2007-03-12 04:28:42 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never mix relationship with friendship.and bring the affair of love here. Naturally your question is posed to know the inner thought to be expresssed in love. This is quiet impossible. Relationship is there where give and take is everytime. Friendship is not to be mingled with the above two. Because never keep secret if you open your views. Everything and every time you also never express and not willing come with inner thoughts. As you think so you are. The distance from you to lover, friend or relation is equal from them to you. Understand.
2007-03-15 23:54:22 · answer #2 · answered by sr50kandala 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
World around us is a complex one but again it is how you see it. One has to be transparent in love, friendship and such other close relationship to be happy and make others happy as well. But there must be limit of transparency. Should anyone always wear fully transparent clothes? No, not always.
Here lies the dignity of any relationship. Hiding facts which should be shared or opened to the person who matters, is never good in the long run. It is also mutual faith.
So World is complex but beautiful in its diversity. Enjoy it and let others also do the same. Don't ever be disheartened. Tomorrow is waiting for you to live and let live, to love and be loved. It is in your hands. Rest leave it on the Almighty.
2007-03-16 21:18:03 · answer #3 · answered by subhas chandra kar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People do not express their thoughts and feelings because of many reasons. Some of them are- feeling of insecurity, inferiority or superiority complexes, feeling that what others will think of them, not being sure and confident about themselves and not realizing that feeling & thinking in their own way about anything, reacting in their own way to anything is their right and expressing these things to outer world will not harm them but will surely help in the long run. In a friend circle thinking aloud in front of the friends is the most important thing as it is said that a friend is one in front of whom you can think aloud. Care should be taken that no one takes you for granted or takes anti advantage of you. Risks are there but that is the life all about.
2007-03-08 23:05:44 · answer #4 · answered by Ravi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are expressive others need time to open up a Little. People are not the same.
2007-03-08 22:05:36 · answer #5 · answered by julia1975 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are right.as far as i know people do so because they just don't know how it makes the other person feel when they do such things.they either don't know or don't care about how relationships are to be made or even maintained for that matter.
but you know that is how the world is and we have got to live in it no matter how ugly it can be.all you can do is try to find people of your kind which is like mission impossible.
hope you get some better people.
good luck.
2007-03-16 18:06:02 · answer #6 · answered by asp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone likes to play safe !!!!!! Maybe they think that they might inadvertently hurt u & lose yr friendship; plus who has the time & energy nowadays to nurture any realtionship ?? Everyone is on the go and very few people really take the time & pains to make lasting friendships.
Secondly, it might be that they just dont care what u think, want or need. Its just ''timepass'' for them.
2007-03-08 22:37:13 · answer #7 · answered by ๏๓ รђคภtเ, รђคภtเ รђคภtเ ....... ! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are phycological factors that barres one self from expressing his or her feeling. For example a complex - be it of inferiority or superiority, lack of self-confidence, shame, family and peer pressure, social responsibility etc etc...
But you are right. Relationships like Love and Friendship demands for expression of feelings to sustain.
2007-03-09 00:06:18 · answer #8 · answered by TJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear venkee,
Its not that simple to reveal ones thought in any way to everyone especially those close to you.
Its simply not mathematics for you to be straight forward but literature with with a lot of flowers growing in it.
Most of the time its unclear but we should not fail in trying it so.
This M. S. Mani.
2007-03-16 17:50:27 · answer #9 · answered by D.R.M.M's Fairplay's Man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason why is that to them they feel like no one understands and if they say anything their afraid people are going to think that their over reacting. And those that don't say what they mean are afraid of rejection so they think that by holding on to everything that they feel makes better or easier to get over it.
2007-03-16 14:03:25 · answer #10 · answered by cbludaisy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People around us are unwilling to express their thoughts because they are afraid of truth .they try to interpret and do things their own way
2007-03-08 22:55:59 · answer #11 · answered by manoz kakkar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋