Does sex drive specifically relate to wanting sex, or does it simply relate to a drive for sexual pleasure?
Put another way, if a person has no desire to have sex, but still has sexual urges, do they still have a libido problem? Can this be addressed/treated?
2007-03-08 21:59:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
really i don't understand
2007-03-08 22:02:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're a guy, it's pretty much about the primal urge to ejaculate and the pleasure along the way / feelings of closeness with a partner are just frosting on the cake. We women are much more complicated, sexually and otherwise.
Some women don't orgasm and enjoy sex anyway. They don't know what they're missing and that's okay with them. There are more women than men with low libidos. They just can't get themselves to the level of excitement necessary to experience or even desire orgasms.
This is only a problem if it is viewed as such. If you are content with simply desiring sexual pleasure and don't feel the need to climax, don't stress and read some books on the subject.
Perhaps try to focus on the natural sensual things in the world and think about how much a guy would love to be watching as you shower. Take things at your own pace. And whatever you do don't feel guilty. :)
2007-03-09 14:20:10 · answer #2 · answered by lillyth17 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No desire to have sex means NO sexual urges.
You only have a problem if you get the urge, get an opportunity...and then you back out from doing it.
2007-03-08 22:59:42 · answer #3 · answered by Afi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexual urges are to do with sex drive. Not wanting sex but still feeling sexual urges doesn't have to do with your sex drive. You may just not feel like having sex.
2007-03-08 22:17:39 · answer #4 · answered by Notherenow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they got stuff for men and women that have libido problems. Sex drive is mainly a drive for the orgasim... sex with no orgasim gives blue balls or a grumpy woman haha.
A true gentleman lets the woman go first lol.
2007-03-08 22:03:01 · answer #5 · answered by massure4hire 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.
The sex drive is very similar to the drive to parachute into the Amazon frorest and poke a gerbil monkey in the eye.
2007-03-08 23:03:15 · answer #6 · answered by Name not provided 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋