judge Lynn Tiler?

Question

I have been married for four years. my husband may have a child outside of our marriage. He went to get tested and the mother did not show up. now he has order a test over the enternet for her child and mines. I'm hurt because my child was born in 2003 and he never question if she was his. The test arrived today, I'm allowing him to give it to her I"m 100 percent sure. He is suppose to give her child a test as well. However, she has another child that is not his and everytime his son comes over she has to come. I don't agree with because when I married him he had no contact with his child. He has been in the court system while dealing with her. He has cheated on me with her while I was pregnant, even goiog to the extend of moving in with her doing our marriage. Now he's opening up old wounds. He expect for me to allow her other child who is elven to come over when he does. He said, he fell like that his child. That she was in the picture before his other kids. I'm married to him.

Answer 1

what? your husband has children from a relationship he had while you were married and pregnant??? And you main concern is the eleven year old? Okay well that wasn't your question, but of course allow both children to visit; personally, I would have gotten rid of the husband first and allowed the children to stay in my life.......but whatever..