Shes been my best friend for years but weve developed feelings for eachother. what now?
2007-03-08 21:19:29 · 28 answers · asked by andy c 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Some of the best relationships start off by being friendships! I think this is great because you've got to know each other first, and you've both obviously loved what you've discovered! It's being soulmates and laughing and crying together that will give you longevity! Right then, what to do next? Just be really really honest with each other about your feelings. Don't be afraid to just go with it! You're going to feel nervous because it will feel strange at first but don't see it as something that's wrong! See it for what it is- a natural and beautiful progression! Romance each other and go with the flow! Good luck- it sounds really exciting!
2007-03-08 21:27:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just take things one step at a time. Some of the best relationships come from being friends first. Always treat her like she is your best friend but obviously one that you can do other stuff with now to! Go out somewhere and have a good chat see how she feels about things developing coz after all friends should be able to talk about most things without feeling uncomfortable.
2007-03-09 05:24:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take it to the next level. A good relationship should be a strong friendship as well. My girlfriend is my best friend but then when they're your partner I guess you don't refer to them as your best friend (it should not need saying).
Only go down that route if you both want too, obviously it will change your relationship to eachother once you decide to do so. If either of you have doubts then talk about them with each other. Be honest, best policy.
2007-03-09 05:26:58 · answer #3 · answered by jarf 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you have developed feelings for each other then go for it.
I know you must be worried that if things go wrong you will lose a good friend, but if you don't try you will never know.
Good luck xx
2007-03-09 06:55:25 · answer #4 · answered by MoJoJoJo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Still act as best friends but just go out the two of you not in a group, if another kiss happens just take it slow and see waht happens.
2007-03-09 05:27:52 · answer #5 · answered by Skippy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speak 2 her 2 c what she fells about u.
If and the 2 have the same fellings then make a relationship.
If not then ok.
No problem. It was only a kiss!!!
2007-03-09 05:22:29 · answer #6 · answered by iona 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best is to tell her the truth bout your feeling. Let her know how you feel n if she's truly your best friend, I'm sure she's okay with it. After all, u just being honest with her right?
2007-03-09 05:28:28 · answer #7 · answered by melfriana 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't really do anything I believe.
It was a kiss and if she wanted anything more then she would let it show, us girls have a way of doing things like that.
Just act normal, as if what happened wasn't a big deal.
If you have strong feelings and can't really hold it back anymore, just simply tell her.
Good luck :)
2007-03-09 05:22:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Talk about it and decide if you want to persue the risk of a relationship and loose your friendship forever. Think about it carefully, it could be a good thing, but if it doesn't work out then you could never have things as they were
2007-03-09 05:24:27 · answer #9 · answered by yarisgp 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk honestly to her, she is your best friend after all.
Accept that you may have a future together, enjoy it but take it slowly. Also accept that if you mess it up, she will probably not be your best friend afterwards.
2007-03-09 05:24:12 · answer #10 · answered by annie 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋