I met this boy through msn last year, we used 2 txt each other everyday, he used to cal me every day and so on. Then we met up, and started to go out. He lives far aay from me, but he used to come down to see me everysaturday. He was lovely. At first I wasn’t in love with him, then things begin to get a be confused, coz we begin to argue other insignificant things. And I got obessed and he dumped me. After a while I got depressed. I missed him and his love. I never felt so happy before in my life. After we broke up he start saying that I was ugly, fat and that he cheated on me. I find out that he never cheated on me and that he only said that to make me upset. For about a year I been trying to get over him, and now I haven’t spoke to him for about 3 mouths but I find it hard to forget him, even though I got lots of friends who supports me, I feel lonely without him. What should I do?
2007-03-08 20:48:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Trust me, you'll get over him. I know it's SUPER hard to do...I had that trouble with my first love, first everything, etc.
It took me a year to get over him. I think you'll be fine, just try to keep your mind off him as best you can. Maybe try to find a new boyfriend, but don't use this guy just to get over your ex. You can't do that to a poor guy...they have feelings too, surprisingly. ;)
Good luck, and I hope you feel better.
2007-03-08 20:52:54 · answer #1 · answered by Wendy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. Me and my ex were best friends for a long time and then we decided to date. We were together for only like 4 months, but when he broke up with me I was crushed. He said he started dating another girl two days after we broke up because he felt bad for braking up with me and he wanted me to forget about him and he never talked to me or anything after that. For a long time I thought I was in love with him because he made me feel so happy and special and when he hugged me I felt so safe. Then I met a very special guy. And we have been together for two years and we have never been happier and I don't miss my ex at all.
My advice to you is don't let the way you feel right now affect your future relationships. Eventually you will find somebody who will never hurt you and who will love you back. Don't give up true love will find you.
2007-03-09 05:03:59 · answer #2 · answered by Hello 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He made you feel inadequate and as if you couldn't survive without him. That's a lot of bunk. Your friends like you for you. It seems he verbally abused you, calling you "ugly and fat". You can do better. You are confused because of how he mistreated you. He made you feel guilty and made you the blame for the reason he started cheating on you. Don't fall for those lines. You shouldn't even be looking back at that guy! You need someone who will support you, appreciate and respect you. That guy did not. Move on, and best of luck!!
2007-03-09 04:59:23 · answer #3 · answered by gone 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you sound just like me. The same thing happen to me.... It's so hard and I wish I can answer your question. It's confusing, believe me. I feel so lonely without my ex and I don't know what I should do. Maybe it's NOT or MAY BE ment to be...but, just remember....guys who call you names (mine did after he broke up with me) they will get it later on in life. No person should call someone names...no matter what it is. Good Luck!
2007-03-09 05:18:29 · answer #4 · answered by Beautiful Soul 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jus let him go, you will find someone else. He should never have called you names, no-matter what the circumstances are. It was uncalled for. He's not worth your time, whether love is involved or not.
2007-03-09 05:07:46 · answer #5 · answered by yarisgp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand how u feel totally.
But i also know , for sure that u deserve better than this retard, to love u, cherish u & make u feel wanted & not wanting!
2007-03-09 07:23:16 · answer #6 · answered by saltnsaffron 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have all ready done the hard work now get yourself out and have a good jump
2007-03-09 04:52:27 · answer #7 · answered by matty60 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, pack your clothes and leave.
2007-03-09 04:53:35 · answer #8 · answered by Disabled 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋