I think my crush likes another girl in my class, but I am not sure. I already confessed my love to him, and he said "He'll maul it over." It's already awkard because he is in all my classes and he is one of my best friends.
I love him sooo much! What should I do!
2007-03-08 20:05:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Oh yeah, I am totally SHY around him.
2007-03-08 20:13:38 · update #1
I am not sure if you need a vocabulary lesson or a better understanding of yourself. You do not love this guy - you lust after him. A crush is just that - someone who is going to crush you (if it only remains a crush). People that we have a crush on are people that we put high on a pedestal and try to blind ourselves to the not so attractive qualities that they may possess. In time, when the 'crush' phase lessens or diminishes completely, we have to come to accept that this person is human, and/or we are 'crushed'.
The guys that have answered already are right - if the guy liked you in that way, he would have been thrilled and jumped on the chance to be with you.
To answer your question - you ask your crush if he likes you or not. See if he/she wants to do something or wants to call and make plans, etc.
2007-03-08 20:36:29 · answer #1 · answered by jennainhiding 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't sweat it if he asks like that it is a sign he wasn't going to be mr.right.Just because you like doesn't mean he's going to be nice about some guys are really jerks.Some could even laugh in your face.Just keep this in mind don't always tell a guy how you unless you know he won't be a jerk about it.
2007-03-16 00:42:51 · answer #2 · answered by Kiwi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trick one for girls is,, for me to mention to never ever ever ever wear toob tops infront of boys or guys,, its a instant fast turn off to boys, but keep wearing prettty bras and sleevless shirts not sure why but open arms n bras straps does attract a guy faster then flys and pink thongs and being pretty and nice,, not a change of moods in a moments notice and I say get some new tops and clothes and just keep going past him listing to tunes or reading books playing hard to get,, IF YOU ARE COLD AND WONT GIVE HIM YOUR LOVING ATTENTIONS YES HES GOING TO FIND SOMEONE FASTER AND NICER,, SO HERE IS YOUR CHANCE
AND ASK HIM TO GO POTTY WITH YOU,, AND TO HELP ME CHANGE CLOTHES IF YOU ARE BOTH OF AGE, THAT IS,, OVER 20... IF YOUR KIDS,, SLOW DOWN TAKE YOUR TIME,, TRUST ME.
2007-03-15 02:50:28 · answer #3 · answered by wgggn_babyjim 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he is ignoring you lately, or pretending that you have never said anything, he probably only likes you as a best friend. Love needs two sides, so if he just treats you like his close pal, I suggest that you do so too.
2007-03-17 04:03:37 · answer #4 · answered by Vida 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
..I guess we're in the same situation..if I were you, I'd stop making a fuss about it..I've read about one study saying that if you stopped thinking about love and start valuing friendship first, something in you will come out and this is very attractive to the opposite sex.. smile a lot and start putting others first..and most of all, be what you are.. this shows what you really are and what people will get or like from you.. be true to yourself..and be friendly..who knows?maybe he's starting to like something about the way you smile..hekhek..
2007-03-09 04:26:45 · answer #5 · answered by lei 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In the guy world an "Im going to think about it" means "Im not going to think about it and im just answering to fill the silence" or an "Im going to say I will think about it so you will stay on the hook in case what im going after now doesnt work out."
He isnt worth the time. Get over him.
2007-03-09 04:16:39 · answer #6 · answered by Gecko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesn't like you like that. if he did then he wouldn't have said he'd "maul over it" when you confessed your love. lets face it, he's just not that into you and maybe he's just not that worth it.
2007-03-16 22:50:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he talks to you and hes single than yeah probably you'll have a chance on going out with him!!!OK like when i liked this boy and my friends liked ted him too you know and he didn't know who to like so he picked me but we weren't going out!!!he just said i was pretty and i got so happy and my friends got jealous and I thought i mite had had a chance to go out with him !!!but he never went out with me he went out with my best friend but like i flunked and he went out with her now he has another girl friend but oh well!!! I never forgot about him!!! un till now i have a boyfriend and i think i got him jealous i think you shuld act mad at youre crush that way he would like you more!!!!OK
2007-03-17 03:40:40 · answer #8 · answered by Jenny! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should just go and ask him who he really likes because of the fact that, for me, waiting too long for the answer is not good for you.
so if it gives you alot of troubles just go and ask him if he likes her or not and tell him that it won't upset you if he just told you the truth.
2007-03-16 21:31:49 · answer #9 · answered by Hoa L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he liked you he would have said so,, not that he'd "maul" it over.
BTW,, use a dictionary to find the meaning of "maul"
2007-03-16 15:47:39 · answer #10 · answered by Jo Blo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋