I thought to myself WTF??! (had to abbreviate!) I also saw toilet paper in the trash. He never needs toilet paper unless he's wiping himself and this had semen on it! I confronted him and he immediately was upset by my 'sneaking' in his stuff! I told him I was his wife and I was allowed to go thru his stuff and he can go thru mine. He acted like it wasn't a big deal and that it didn't matter, but I told him it mattered to me. It makes me feel like I'm not good enough for him. He travels to Germany a lot and it makes me wonder if he screws around behind my back too. He denies it of course, but then he died about masterbating in front of the computer too until I found evidence. Any advice? Thanks.
2007-03-08 19:53:42 · 5 answers · asked by Just me. 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't need to apologize for anything! I did nothing wrong!
2007-03-08 22:32:15 · update #1
What a pig! Tell him to knock off the porn. That is so disrespectful. I would suspect he was cheating too since he travels and looks at porn. Sick a$$.
2007-03-09 04:28:26 · answer #1 · answered by Kari R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lighten up, why would it be bad if your husband jerks off on porn? He is a sexual being, like all of them and us, although women experience their sexuality in a different way I guess. It probably has little to do with you and him, but it might be good if you made it easy and okay for him to talk about. Your reaction makes him feel embarressed and put in the corner, which cannot be good for your relationship. Consequently you don't trust him and he probably doesn't feel like he can talk to you freely... To openly discuss your sexuality, including masturbation and porn, will help you in trusting him and help him in trusting you and will eventually lead to the two of you being closer, even in bed is my guess. Lighten up, tell him you're sorry for cornering him in and accusing him and tell him honestly you were shocked or disturbed by your discovery and you probably don't understand.
2007-03-09 06:30:15 · answer #2 · answered by - 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Which would you prefer? An affair with his computer or an
affair with some broad? No matter what you do divorce or not
he's going to do as he pleases.
2007-03-09 08:30:29 · answer #3 · answered by Williamstown 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can install NetDog Porn Filter on the computer,that help you to block all porn sites quitely in the background when he's on the internet. http://www.netdogsoft.com
2007-03-10 01:04:26 · answer #4 · answered by beyondhelper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get a divorce
2007-03-11 00:01:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋