I'm a straight girl and I told a doctor one time that i want to be bi (but i know she couldnt make me one) and she told me that I must have some feelings about it to want to be, but what did she mean?
2007-03-08 18:32:36 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She meant she wasn't qualified to know one way or the other what your feelings were. She was only agreeing with whatever you said. It must be "in style" to be bi now days. Everyone jumping on the bandwagon not to be left out.
2007-03-08 18:37:44 · answer #1 · answered by Im Listening 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm bi myself and I used to kid around as well that I wanted to be bi, before I knew I really was. I mean, your options double!!! The thing is, if you're even thinking that you want to be, that means you are, to some level. I have a theory that women are more sexually flexible than men are, well, "straight" men are too homophobic to admit to it, at least. I don't know if you're really bi or not, but don't listen to lunatics who say it's immoral, and live your own life!!
2007-03-17 02:11:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
greetings...let me see if i can shed some light on this. i believe what the doctor meant was wanting to be bi-sexual isn't a service a doctor or anyone else can perform. it's who you are as a person that decides your sexual preference. for example; let's say you were born a white female. that's it..your a white female. it's not something that can be changed, or altered or erased. you are what you are. being bi-sexual i believe is a choice, not genetic make up. being gay on the other hand i believe is something your born with. just like being born white, or black or Asian etc...only you know deep down inside what's right for you. good luck
2007-03-17 02:12:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U can't just decide all of a sudden that u want to be bi. U've to have the feelings for it. No one can make u be bi. Are u attracted to both men and women??
2007-03-09 03:12:11 · answer #4 · answered by fldrod 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What she meant was that if you're wanting to be bi, then you must have been thinking about what being bi would feel like and who you'd like to be bi with. You don't make statements like that to people unless you're serious about it. Since you said it to your Dr. could you be wanted to be bi with her and she didn't respond the way you thought. She didn't let you know she'd like to try it too or that SHE WAS BI. So now I bet you're embarrassed and feeling alittle stupid about saying that.So, from now on, think about what you're saying and who you're saying it to. You won't be left with egg on you 're face.
2007-03-09 03:58:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to be attracted to both men and women, and there is nothing wrong with being Bi, it is not evil, these days it is a way of life, alot of people are Bi. Good Luck.
2007-03-16 16:01:15 · answer #6 · answered by kimincalgary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you decide you want to be bi? Were you just kidding with her when you said that? I'll tell you something. Being bi naturally is bad enough,so why would you want to be evil?Better just enjoy being heterosexual since that's the right and moral thing to do.
2007-03-09 05:50:29 · answer #7 · answered by autumn leaf 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
SHE'S TELLING YOU IF YOUR HAVING FEELINGS THEN YOU ALREADY HEADED THAT WAY DOESN'T MEAN YOU ARE BUT WHY ARE YOU THINKING THAT WAY AS LONG AS YOU STAY STRAIGHT YOU NOT BI ONCE YOU GO WITH THE SAME SEX YOUR GAY OR IF YOU GO WITH BOTH YOUR BI SHE'S TELLING YOU SHE CAN MAKE THAT DECISION FOR YOU
2007-03-17 01:44:26 · answer #8 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is simply saying that if you are not "on the border line" then something must have happened to you for you to want to be bi.
2007-03-17 01:43:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she meant that if you want to be bi, then you probably aren't as straight as you think you are.
2007-03-09 02:55:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋