2007-03-08 17:22:50 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yep, It's ok... you're probably just lonely. Go for it I say
2007-03-08 22:44:11 · answer #1 · answered by In the same boat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just for sex is still an affair. And no it's not o.k. to have sex with anyone outside of the marriage. What if your wife was having sex with someone at her job and you didn't know about it? You would feel pretty bad to know that she was doing the same thing that you were doing. If you feel the need to seek sex from outside your marriage it just seems that you don;t love or respect your wife/husband. There has to be some dep rooted things going on in hte home to even want to make you seek sex outside the home. Besides what I don't understand is why people spen so much time trying to get to know someone only to get to kow them and then go out and cheat it makes no sence to me.
2007-03-08 17:30:03 · answer #2 · answered by ltwatkins77 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It is an affair because your married. You would be commiting adultry. And if you want to have sex with other women then you shouldn't have gotten married in the first place. Maybe you should not be with your wife since you have these thoughts/actions. Your hurting alot of people.
2007-03-08 17:30:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think having sex outside the marriage is an affair. Did you not listen to the vows at your wedding? Anyway, if you're seriously considering this, then I'll just go have sex with your spouse, and we'll see how you feel then.
2007-03-08 17:29:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
An affair is having sex outside of marriage.
2007-03-08 17:25:31 · answer #5 · answered by ~Christine~ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why ruin a good friendship or work relationship? And why ruin your marriage "just for sex"? I think you know the answers to both of my questions as well as your own. Now remember if you are going to play you will have to pay at some time and the price may be a lot more than you are willing or have.
2007-03-08 17:30:28 · answer #6 · answered by Cindy Roo 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to destroy your marriage over UN loved sex No way Go home and take you spouse out to the country and make love if you want something strange. wear different cloths. Go look in the mirror and ask your self how would I like the person you hate the most to have love with your spouse. If it would still be OK send me your spouses Email address I know some one that would love only them
2007-03-08 17:33:50 · answer #7 · answered by kiss4u 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have the sex,,but both swear never to tell a single soul,,cuz if one person finds out then marriage over,,remember is it worth the sack time to loose the marriage,,whats more important,,a night or two of unforgetble sex,,or a divorce,,,,if kids involved,,remember what ever you decide will effect them also,, If affair is discovered then you will be the bad quy
2007-03-08 17:30:46 · answer #8 · answered by lisadivirgilio 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
DUDE ARE YOU THAT STUPID!!!! no it is not ok to have a sex partner at work if you are married because that is cheatting on your wife or husband ok you can not do that to he/she ok that is just wrong!! wrong!! wrong!! ok cheatting is cheatting no matter what you want to call it if you are married or have a bf/gf that is still chatting on your spouse that is just not right and you just might hurt the person you love the most and plus they truse you and they truse you with there lives and you really don't want to mess that up now do you ..
2007-03-08 17:36:02 · answer #9 · answered by Beckie C 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
how come having sex is not an affair? this is an affair. if u have someone just for talks ti means friendship
2007-03-08 17:55:44 · answer #10 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BIG NO! sex = affair! difficult to get out of it! ruins your relationship with your spouse no matter if you say its one time or whatever. once you have it, you will lust for it! tired with your spouse? try rebuilding relationship. do things you did before. be creative, try different positions! it's always best to sleep with a peaceful mind! remember karma and also the golden rule! stick to your spouse!
2007-03-08 17:37:42 · answer #11 · answered by meh 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋