she has a different job in the buliding than me so i dont really get to see her or talk to her that much. only when i need something from her. and i cant tell if she is into me at all or is even like that. but i do catch her looking at me(the few times i see her) and not only that but i hardly know anything about her and are covo's are sweet and short. i know i should just talk to her more and ask her. but im scared and i dont want to scare her away. ugh what do i do? please help!
2007-03-08 17:05:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
and if any of you were wondering im gay. so i cant tell if she is or not. and i am hoping to find that out at some point! lol its just the waiting that kills me!
2007-03-08 18:19:47 · update #1
Just suck it up and ask if she would like to go to lunch with you, and maybe the first time include another office worker to make it easier for her to say yes. Then take it from there, but don't get invested if she is clearly not interested. Just chock it up to a crush and get back to work.
You don't want to compromise your work environment for a go nowhere infatuation, so tread carefully!
2007-03-08 17:35:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I would just talk to her. Ask how she is doing? Just talk, you will never know unless you say something. I felt the same way, it took me a year to say something and I am glad I did because he was moving away and I didn't know. So I finally built up the courage and we have been together for 5 yrs now. Good Luck.
2007-03-09 01:13:16 · answer #2 · answered by Amy 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Just ask her to lunch. It doesn't even have to be as anything more than friends. Use that opportunity to get to know her and when you do so you can see if she's into you or not.
2007-03-09 01:45:24 · answer #3 · answered by Ash 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Envite her for lunch out to get to know her more. Friends can turn into a lover..... Better you try than never.... Goodluck
2007-03-09 02:30:04 · answer #4 · answered by ANDREA 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
let go and get real
2007-03-09 02:14:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋