Like...they always want their way...and it's like you dont count....it makes me want to turn & run away
2007-03-08 16:59:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
my dear..it has more to do with your insecurity.....
everyone will try to make you think differently about you...
you need to keep that "YOU" in tact..by refusing to give anyone permission to mess with it....
People can only treat you how you allow them to treat you....
do some spiritual courses....will help...try "art of living"..its great
god bless
2007-03-08 17:30:22 · answer #1 · answered by Jennie S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, sometimes. We have a joint checking account, but only one checkbook and debit card. He has both. With direct deposit happening, I have to ask him for money. He doesn't tell me no, but I do hate having to ask for my own money to go put gas in my car or get cigarettes. Sometimes he gives it to me and sometimes he says he will get them when he goes out after awhile. Other than that I am supposed to do all the house work in addition to my 40 hours a week while he watches TV. But I love him sooooo much for everything else. He truly is an amazing guy in every other aspect.
2007-03-08 22:14:51 · answer #2 · answered by sassynsweet1221 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, if you feel this way then you should probably get out of the relationship. Your inner being is necessary. Just let this relationship go.
2007-03-08 17:03:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel like leaving then that's what you should do.
It sounds like your partner is damaging your self-esteem. If they don't have enough respect for you to lift you up instead of keeping you down...then you should leave.
What will happen if you stay? It'll only continue.
You should be with someone who makes you feel special.
2007-03-08 17:03:22 · answer #4 · answered by Sunshine Queen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes - its called emotional abuse and it starts with you suddenly doubting yourself. Then he convices you that you're crazy and wrong about everything. Then you're suicidal wondering how you got here.
Oh yeah, it's a ton of fun. But it's not you, its him, he's doing it and enjoying the show. Get out while you're still sane.
2007-03-08 17:02:37 · answer #5 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that way than that person doesn't love you for you. It's time to get out of that relationship.
2007-03-09 00:39:56 · answer #6 · answered by MJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, I make sure I keep my individuality, my inner strength, what makes me the person I am. We teach people how to treat us - don't put up with junk.
2007-03-09 01:39:45 · answer #7 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He tried ....oh he tried ...but he forgot 1 minor detail . I love myself And I m proud of myself so now it becomes a fight to the death ... not me mind you . What he started I will end I am WOMAN!!!!!!!!!lol...lol...lol... now who looks like the crazy one? I my loose everything I have but he can;t take away my dignity. Remember girls.... He can't make your future worse than he tried to make your past! Hes gone!!!!!!!
2007-03-08 17:42:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its just their way to gain control and have everything go their way. he uses it to control, to manipulate. if he can hurt u, and make u believe things he says, it most certainly can hurt your self esteem, and how u see yourself. its to get u to focus on the hurt he has said, and not the real issues. just a way to win, to gain power over the one he is trying to control.
2007-03-08 21:22:17 · answer #9 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't run away, drive away!
2007-03-08 17:01:49 · answer #10 · answered by that_guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋