When my ex broke up with me, he was pursuing another girl..a one night stand he was with before we met, who had his child because of it. He told me she was a mistake and he thought she was "trash", and it was a big msitake. Well, I found out when he was pursuing her he told her he was never attracted to me and never really loved me. I asked him about it, and of course he denied it. But his actions now made me think he did say these things. Now, I am very insecure, self concious about how attractive I am. I know it sounds stupid, but I cant help it. His opinion of me mattered at one time, & now I feel like he lied to me. When we were together he showed me much interest and I am total opposites of this other girl. I am just more conservative and "classier". I dont get what he saw in her ,looks and personality. Im told I am very pretty but I second guess myself now, I am not as confident as I used to be.Wether or not he was being honest, why did he say these things he made me feel foolish
2007-03-08 16:53:32 · 9 answers · asked by maria s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Some men like trash more than class... that's because they themselves have a low self esteem about themselves.
There is no need to be insecure about yourself. What you need is to look into the mirror and evaluate yourself... Do YOU see a beautiful person? If not, do something about it! My guess is that you will see someone beautiful... now all you have to do is go out into the world and find someone that will appreciate the beauty. Not everyone will, because different people have different opinions of what beauty is... but as long as you see it, you can rest assured others will too... Good Luck!
2007-03-08 17:15:49 · answer #1 · answered by J j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a cheat don't believe him......
he would have felt enough of you and has gone for the other... And now he will say the same about his ex-gfs to the new gf that they weren't that prettier as the new one..
Please just look at yourself in the mirror... You will know the truth... You are prettier like the other pretty girl else he would have felt the attraction towards you....
So you are the best!!!... the problem is with him...
Better stay away from him....
Good Luck... God Bless You:)
2007-03-08 17:16:40 · answer #2 · answered by Raj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys can be real slime bags! He told her those things about you to get into her pants. He would have told her anything to convince her that you meant absolutely nothing to him and that she was the one and only girl he ever wanted(you may have heard that line yourself). You've got to face facts that many guys will lie, cheat, beg, borrow, and steal to get what they want from girls. They will manipulate you with compliments, gifts, and yes even lies to make sure they get their sexual pleasures taken care of. You need not worry about the stupid comments he made about you. You need to go about finding a good guy out there that will treat you with the caring and respect that you deserve. Don't let this jerk off ruin your opinion of all guys. There are many out there that will probably be more than happy to take that empty seat next to you that you had reserved for sorry excuse of a man. Good Luck sweetheart.
2007-03-08 17:12:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maria,
You need to be strong about yourself and sounds like you aren't! Don't allow anybody to put you down! Start feeling like you don't care and stand up to people!
All that matters is what you think of YOU, not what others think of you!
Get some self confidence and carry yourself proud and people will look up to you! It WORKS!
2007-03-08 17:00:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
at the starting up....... you probably did the right issue. please dont rush your self into having sex with the incorrect man or woman. i dont even imagine you adore her because your so apprehensive about her having 2 babies and your destiny. if u truly loved her, i advise...u will settle for the completed kit - her 2 babies. you recognize what, make your "first time" memorable. do it with someone you propose to have your destiny with. someone you imagine turning out to be previous with. make it magical and suitable. so do not rush issues only because stupid females get grew to develop into off by technique of eco-friendly adult males. it truly is by technique of how, oh so no longer genuine. u were chatting with the incorrect females. i'm a woman and that i inform you, genuine females, marriage-worth females desire adult males who've a lot less journey. so please..dont make a incorrect determination. and dont make a issue out of no longer something. you're a marvelous man or woman, or maybe as the right lady comes alongside, each little thing will be suitable.
2016-12-05 10:59:50 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi maria, this dude is just using the both of you women, don't trust him and you need to move on with your life, i am sure you are very pretty and you can find better than that, Jerry, skinnydude53@yahoo.com
2007-03-08 22:23:00 · answer #6 · answered by nuckolbuster51 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are very lucky , u discover what kind of person he is. You dont deserve him, trush him girl. We learned from our own mistake, so MOVE ON. Goodluck!!!
2007-03-08 17:29:15 · answer #7 · answered by ANDREA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on!!
You are better then trash like that!!
2007-03-08 16:58:49 · answer #8 · answered by THE ACTS OF POWER 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was just being ignorant
2007-03-09 01:41:06 · answer #9 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋