Do not say, "I hate what they do, not them." It's their choice to do, so it's therefore them. My mom said she loves me and my druggie brother the same, even though he's stolen from her for the past 11 years. I don't think it's possible. You cannot love someone unconditionally just because of flesh and blood....that only goes so far.
2007-03-08 16:51:47 · 21 answers · asked by *~*~*~* 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I totally know where you're coming from...I'm in the same position. My brother is a crapper, goes to jail, steals, causes havoc and I've barely caused a ripple in my parent's life...And my mother gives him a house......I think that you can love your children with an intense love, but one child should never be able to do whatever they like without there being some kind of repercussions.
2007-03-08 16:57:18 · answer #1 · answered by debdini 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most parents love their kids the same and all parents should love their kids unconditionally. I dont care what my daughter did-I would still love her. I dont know if I would love another one the same as her being that I only have one child (but hoping to change that soon) but my mom has 3 kids and I believe her when she says she loves all of us the same.
2007-03-09 00:58:02 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I had a bad relationship with my parents and even till now me and my dad still arent on good terms. But I just had a baby 3 weeks ago and, man, did I ever get hit with the unconditional love bug!! I dunno, i think no matter what i'll always love my daughter. I might not agree with every choice she'll make in her life but i'll ALWAYS love her. I kinda felt the same way as u when i was still living with my parents. But now that I have my own, somehow, i understand. Maybe one day u will, too, when u have ur own.
2007-03-09 01:04:52 · answer #3 · answered by mommy.luv.jordyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart I know you don't understand that.But I'm a mother myself and I love all my kids the same and unconditionally no matter what they do wrong I'll always be there for them to help them and love them.Honey it's just a bond that a mother has with there child once they give birth that no one can explain!!!!!
2007-03-09 00:58:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question, tough one too. I know a family in the same position as ur family, and I find it hard to understand why they let their son back home to steal from them time and time again.
He goes to jail and when he comes out he does it all over again!
My children are 3 yrs and 19 months and I love them both the same. Ask me the same question when they are adults lol.
2007-03-09 01:05:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flesh and blood does not equate to unconditional love... that is true. I have relatives that I can't stand or respect, and I will freely admit that I don't love them. However, I have a baby son, and I think that he fits into the category of the type of flesh and blood that would receive unconditional love from me.
2007-03-09 00:56:20 · answer #6 · answered by Mickey Mouse Spears 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We all have our share of things our parents wish we didn't so, however my mom loves us all the same. Parents forgive and forget most of the time. So yes it is possible. Are you mad about it..Would you want to be loved any less if you had some type of problem. Think about it!
2007-03-09 00:56:46 · answer #7 · answered by LSD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, i think they do. i agree though, it can only go so far. parents do that because deep down inside they believe that their child will someday change. sometimes this is the case and sometimes it isn't but that is why i think parents do it. it is important to love all of your kids very much but sometimes they need to learn the hard way. hope this helps. good luck.
2007-03-09 00:56:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I really do love unconditionally.
Having children is for life. When I had mine, it was because I was ready and wanted children to love. I knew that things wouldnt always go as planned.
When my daughter died (cancer) a part of me died too. But I had to go on. When my son does his wacky things. I love him and always will, not matter what!
There is such a thing as loving your children the same but loving them for different reasons.
2007-03-09 01:00:47 · answer #9 · answered by faith♥missouri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes they love their kids unconditionally. Even when my brother got in trouble and ended up in jail, my mother still talked to him and even convinced him to move back in with her after he got out. IF my dad turned his back on my brother he turned his back on me too. I would say we both got equal treatment growing up. It may seem at times I got spoiled but in reality he got in the most trouble so he got less rewards.
2007-03-09 00:56:31 · answer #10 · answered by ♥c0c0puffz♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋